What great replies!  You don't know how your comments and stories have helped me.  It's amazing how similar our stories are.  I too, didn't get out of bed for 2 days. Well, to be honest, from the bed to the couch all day, then back to bed at 9:00 pm. When I am upset or depressed, I always become sooo very tired, and find it difficult to stay awake.  I started having nightmares too which I haven't had in many years. I don't understand, but our history was always a caring one.  Over the years we changed, and our lives went in different directions and since Chuck died, our friendship changed a lot.  She and her husband go camping every weekend.  She lives in N. Carolina and the camping there is endless.  She still works and doesn't answer her phone at night, so, our contact was emails, where  before we talked at least once a week.  

I'm just amazed that we are all going through the same thing. And here we are in different parts of the country. . . I thank you again.  It will help me sleep better tonight.

Love and Blessings to you all,

Adelle