I believe we have multiple chances with our God. He never pulls away or abandons you. I no longer practice my religion and I eagerly await the Second Coming. God will be just and fair and if I deserve eternal punishment, the only one I can blame is myself. Everyone we deal with is a child of God, so what we do and say to them, we are doing and saying to Our Father. If we just realized that, some of the stuff that comes out of our mouths who shame us to tears.