Everyone's journey at this earth is determined by the choices we make. These choices lead us to our respective pathways in life whether good, bad, or indifferent. Blaming someone else for your actions is just self denial. Personally, I believe it is better to face up to your own actions and deal with the outcome the best you can; then find the pathway of life that GOD intended for you personally; and you find this pathway through prayer to your Father in Heaven. Angie.