Sick of feeling guilt for taking time formyself.  Sick of feeling guilt when I do something for myself.  Sick of feeling sick of it.

Sick of being told "Oh I want to still be independent" but then in the same breath get accused of "Not taking care of them and helping them"

SIck of being the worst person in the world because I can't magically add 40 more hours to a single day to get everything done that everybody needs from me.

SOOOOO...

I quit.  I walk away from all of that and promise myself to find a way to end the guilt and a "nice" way to tell them to get over it and if they ask for my help and advice to take it or QUIT ASKING!