I've lived in buffalo all my life. I am a 43 year old female who stays at home to take care of my husband who just became quadriplegic. It all took place so fast. I'm still in shock. He was such a hard worker and now he sits in a wheelchair. I do everything in my power to make him feel better but it is so hard to keep smiling when i know how much he is hurting inside because is unable to do anything for himself like he use to all the friends you thought had never come around in time of need i just joined this in hoping to find some people i can talk with as i am not a great writer or really don't express myself that well but the friends that did sign up to be my support I just want to say thank you