I am a Baha'i married to a Catholic. My husband is a native Spanish speaker, it is my second language. We also use pidgin sign language, as our daughter is hearing impaired. So in our house there is no average or normal way to be.
Spiritually I follow Baha'u'llah, though I find my ability to participate in community activities and even devotional practices is not what I would like it to be. I'm working on it.