I am so frustrated right now...he tells me that I spend to much time on my phone or my computer during 'family time' yet last night he was on his computer for a couple of hours during 'family time'.  I feel like what goes for him doesn't go for me and it's frustrating because if I were to bring it up, it would start a fight and he's end it with saying he can't take it anymore and that we needed to get a divorce.  I am getting so tired of having to walk on egg shells around him because I am afraid that he will leave but if he leaves then he leaves - so be it!