I never dreamed that at 41 I would find myself single and living alone.  I had my children very young so they are all grown and out on their own.  The other thing I never dreamed was the fires I would have to go through to get to this place in my life.  I am not complaining because the Lord has brought me through each one stronger than before and in most cases been the only port in the storm for me.  I am happy, content and ready for the next set of adventures in my life.  I get up every morning thanking God for His wonderful blessings and for what I know He will bring in the day ahead.  If you can't tell by now I am an eternal optimist and I love life!  I'm on this site to make friends and possibly meet God's match for me.  One thing I am not here for is to be scammed or "play games".  We are all far too mature for that and it wastes time.  We need to spend our time living life, building each other up and experiencing new things.