Cove, your one response is kind of confusing to me.  Suppose a couple is tired and just wants to make out but don't feel like having sex.  Is this supposed to be a sin?  What if a woman is ovulating and just wants to make out and smuggle with her husband.  I cannot believe that the Church would see anything wrong with this.  Am I supposed to believe that if a woman is fertile her husband either has to have intercourse with her so she can possibly get pregnant or not touch her?  I cannot believe that the Church would be this stupid.  I cannot believe that the Church would consider it a sin if a married couple has oral sex and/or does French kissing and it does not lead to intercourse.  I can't imagine a priest even caring or wanting to talk about this to a married couple.  This is just my opinion. 

Peace - Mareczku