meanderingthru wrote:

But I do have a few questions: first of all, what is the standard religious process for becoming a born again virgin?  Does anyone know what a standard vow of renewed virginity entails?  I'm not quite sure if we'd be able to find a place for him to take the vow in his country (to which I will be moving), so we may have to do it on our own, which is why I'm trying to find as much information on the technical process as possible.  I won't have a problem doing it on our own, for like I stated, it is the symbolic and spiritual nature of this process that I find worthwhile.  I'm not so interested in things I've read about like cards or rings proclaiming renewed virginity.  And also, I find the idea of the actual vows being a spiritual experience between only the two of us rather appealing.

Aside from that, any thoughts are welcome.  Thanks in advance!

Meandering,
You did read where it is written "in christ you are a new creation" didn't you?  I don't suppose you know that to be born again makes us virgins either, do you?

New birth, once completed makes a caterpillar into a butterfly or a tadpole into a frog, it is a metamorphosis.  The word of understanding has to be planted into the person for the new conception, it must gestate in the discipline of a type, trivial pushing out of the cocoon is being born and babyhood, began traveling (Mat 28:19 & John 3:8) while nursing is the childhood, separate from nursing (Isaiah 28:9) for adolescence and, finally, obtain the powers of Yeshua (Jesus John 14:12) to be a born again adult.   Once out of the cocoon one is a virgin (Mat. 19:29) but it is not something one does but the process of being born again.  A butterfly is virgin once its wings dry and it is able to fly, so is every man born of the spirit. 

You'll be grateful on your wedding night that someone doesn't have to resort to reading a manual.

Work on strengthening your future, not your past.

Born again virgin, give me a break.