is anyone posting on this anymore?

I have a question. I'll keep it short.

I'm a Virgo. As Virgos, we move slow in relationships. We're overly critical and hard to impress, which comes across as playing hard to get. I have a problem with this! I wan't to be open to a romatic relationship again but I can't seem to let anyone get close enough. I've been told this is the "inability to let your guard down" aspect of the Virgo psychie. This taken into consideration, is there any way I can ease this guard down long enough for me to give a guy a chance!?