is anyone posting on this anymore?

I have a question. I'll keep it short.

I'm a Virgo. As Virgos, we move slow in relationships. We're overly critical and hard to impress, which comes across as playing hard to get. I have a problem with this! I wan't to be open to a romatic relationship again but I can't seem to let anyone get close enough. I've been told this is the "inability to let your guard down" aspect of the Virgo psychie. This taken into consideration, is there any way I can ease this guard down long enough for me to give a guy a chance!?

Have I got the solution for you!!!! We no longer call it "folding"---it's HANGING!Invested in hangers! The only folding done is unhangables-linens,shorts,undies& socks. No more flipped over stacks of shirts looking for the "right" one! Getting mad cuz all time/effort making it neat wasted in blink of an eye. It was the V8 moment! Everyone can easily find what they're looking for. Except my wishy-washy,easy-breezy Gemini is in charge of it for now. I think shirts arent folded,rather rolled up over her arms til it resembles folded. Inside/out-who cares. Shirts are shirts-yours,mine,dads-theyre folded arent they? Yeah, did you just get mad/laugh? Yep. me too!

Worse yet, my husband-VIRGO-does he want things neat-yes. help?NO organized? NO complete projects?NO Uncontrolled-carefree spending? YES! I think someone lied about his birthday. My Virgo son is just that.Virgo.

Upside, my wing will soon be fixed by great surgeon. Cleaning up after a good surgeon. You know, the little details make the difference. Hopefully back in flight sooner than later. Winter's coming. don't like flying in a snowstorm.  

Reading your post is like I wrote it myself! My daughter moved back in when her husband was deployed to Afghanistan. Her only obligation to household duties is the laundry. It's the one thing I can't do with a broken wing.  We have had famous fights over it! I'm very specific about how things are to be folded-because I've got it down to a fine art of course-lol. Her haphazard way infuriates me! Her comment was-I love how we can fight and be done & over it in 30 seconds. She books reservations for a resort hotel. Her training was to recognize peoples'personalities & tendancies quickly so she can give details/advice about features & diff "plans" without frustrating the clients. Some want every little detail, others have totally researched every option online before calling-guess which one we are?? lol

tlhvirgo--it's nice to know you're not "anal virgo"!! I have a slightly twisted sense of humor and am told all the time how hilarious/funny I am. I also choose the sunny side of life. It could be really easy to let the spiteful virgo out, but I found long time ago it'll just put extra wrinkles in my forehead

I guess I don't know much past the easy dates for signs. I'm aug 26. son aug 30., husband sep9. While me&son are very much virgos my husband is way much more free spirit, impulsive. wants things clean,but is a slob! spends money like water/sive. i compensate by just opposite. CRAZY!!-then on other hand, had he not splurged sometimes i/we would've missed out on some memorable moments! life! go figure. btw, how do i figure out all the rising,moon sign,etc? can you point me in right direction for resource? As a virgo I don't naturally believe kinda stuff, but my horoscopes here are scary dead-on! esp last 2 yrs. sometimes i'll read after day passed & be shocked at accuracy. Now i send them to my daughter if trouble is brewing!lol nice chatting:)