My partner and I survived his affair.  However, I am still hanging on to fears and resentments about it and I am now the problem in our relationship.

He gave her up seven months ago and has been completely devoted to me since. I have no reason for any fear of him leaving me.

I think about her more than he does.  Talking to her isn't going to make me feel better. Continuing to bring it up isn't helping either.  I don't know how to let it go so God can continue to bless us and do his work through us as individuals and as a couple.

I know this is keeping me/us from receiving God's abundance for my/our life.

Any advice and prayer from wives/women who chose to stay and work it out would be welcomed and appreciated. 

Blessings in abundance to everyone who reads this!