| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 1:03PM #31 | |
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And in The (supposed) Good Old Days, the "Privilege" of getting "Married" was specifically withheld for "Inter-Racial" Couples ... It's NOT The Bronze Age anymore ... and it's not even 1950 anymore, either ... But, yes ... For GOOD Reasons -- Medical, Psycho-Social, especially -- "Incest" is -- and will continue to be -- proscribed ... as will "Bestiality" ... (I mean, REALLY ... ??? Are these REALLY the BEST Arguments the "Anti-" Bunch can set forth ... ???)
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 1:46PM #32 | |
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there are suggestions of homosexuality throughout history and not always as closeted as some suggest. I have heard friends relatives and other refer to themselves and others as a “confirmed Bachelor” In Victorian and earlier literature, the term “confirmed” bachelor was reference to a homosexual. Marriage may have been confine to KNOWN male/ female , but cross dressing and impersonation have a long history and often only revealed after and later. Liberty and civil rights are not about tradition but about “all men created equal” and “pursuit of happiness”. We no longer not include women in th “all mean created equal” so traditions fall by the wayside for good reasons,
“I seldom make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect.” Edward Gibbon
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 10:16PM #33 | |
Fod you seem to be implying that male/female marriage is some sort of custom or tradition that has outlived its time. Further that there is something equally natural about the attraction of a man to a man or woman to a woman as opposed to the natural attraction of a man to a woman. It nonsensical. There is no bloodline, no kinship in a ss relationship. It is doomed from the start and this country isnt becoming more civilized or progressive by some legislative attempt to legalize it. You are moving in the opposite direction in your thought.
Any man can count the seeds in an apple....
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 10:38PM #34 | |
In a word....so what? Well,two words then. You and Bodean are hung up on this kinship,bloodline stuff. Marriage is about more than determining genealogy. As has been amply pointed out, there are real, everday advantages NOW to married couples that have nothing to do with genealogy. Although as more gays adopt kids, the legal genealogy aspect will become important as well.
LOL.Anyone who believes that SSM won't become legal and accepted mostly nationwide is the one not moving with the times. Whether by popular vote state by state ( in which case the deep south may hold out against the "q***rs" ,and consign themselves to having a % of their intelligent folks leave, whether gays or heteros tired of associating with the stupidity) ,or by judicial action, the issue will ultimately be settled in favor of SSM. Maybe not entirely to the satisfaction of some gays, if the final answer is civil unions for both gays and straights, with marriage as a strictly religious rite, but eventually gays and straights will be treated equally under the law regarding marriage.Or civil unions. |
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 10:59PM #35 | |
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***So you're suggesting that a HeteroSexual Couple that has no Biological Descendants ought not be considered a legitimate Marriage, either ... ???
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 02, 2012 - 11:47PM #36 | |
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Marriage is a social paradigm that evolves . Bloodlines have an importance but that importance can be social, legally, emotionally overridden by adoption. Adoptive relationships have in all of recorded history been accepted as powerful as “blood line” or “natural offspring” . Illegitimacy is “blood” but there are historical example of where adoptive familial members continue the families linage while the Illegitimate offspring are cut off . The divorce rate has damaged the marriage tradition more than the union of same sex couples ever could. Serial marriage, extra marital relationships, abandonment of spouse all damage marriage more than a loving caring faithful same sex relationship could.
“I seldom make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect.” Edward Gibbon
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 03, 2012 - 12:12AM #37 | |
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Quote:
"The divorce rate has damaged the marriage tradition more than the union of same sex couples ever could. Serial marriage, extra marital relationships, abandonment of spouse all damage marriage more than a loving caring faithful same sex relationship could." So why fight to join something that's so corrupted? |
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 03, 2012 - 12:26AM #38 | |
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Yes ... I have FOUR Children -- one a "Birth-Child," two Adopted, and one Foster Child ... Anybody who says that we're not a REAL Family is ... NUTS ...
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 03, 2012 - 12:28AM #39 | |
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Maybe THAT's the "Rub" ... ??? Some Hetro-Sexual Couples like Newt and Callista worry that GLBT Couples will be more successful and faithful ... ???
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| 13 months ago :: Jun 03, 2012 - 1:24AM #40 | |
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Say WHAT? There are TWO males (Count 'em!) in our marriage. This is delusional nonsense. And, again, no "good reason" to deny us marriage equality. There is a very good reason: it is an imitation that wants to be considered on the same level as the real thing, even though it doesn't meet the requirements. Pretending to be a "wife" in spite of the bulges, or pretending to have bulges where there are none, is make believe. Fine as fantasy games, but not good enough to establish a social institution. |
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