Dec 30, 2009 -- 9:03PM, Hamstermom wrote:

Thanks Dreamweever2, just had to post with this subject after all the experiences we have had. It's amazing, but I believe they get through to us somehow

I do too. I'm still learning about those ways, and about what comes to me. I had a dream about my ex father in law the night before he was hospitalized. I found the dream disturbing, and posted it on the dream forum. It was later in the day that I was called about him being taken to the hospital. He was in for about 3 weeks. Two days after he was discharged, he passed away at home. The dream was preparing me for all of it. That's something else that was new to me, or at least new to my awareness. So much to learn, and I'm grateful to have found this site because it's really helped me a lot on my path.

Would you like to share some of your experiences? I'd be interested to hear about them if you like.

Wow Hamstermom, you have had a lot of experiences. I appreciate you posting them. I find them very interesting. I suspect that I've had some that I've missed. The times that I've had someone close pass, I tend to take it pretty hard. It's usually a long time before I'm able to look at pictures of them again, or let down the wall I put up for emotional protection pertaining to their death.

There's a show that comes on A & E, and also on Biography channel, called Celebrity Ghost Stories. They just had one on about a guy from a rock band, whose brother in law had been murdered. He was telling the story, and said that his wife had been seeing things that had been happening as signs from her brother. He referred to himself as having been "ridiculously sceptical". I liked that term. After he saw enough stuff happen, he dropped that stance and started helping his wife. It's hard to be around people like that because you know you aren't crazy, and you know you aren't going to be believed, and end up being debated against. When I know someone doesn't believe the things that go on, I don't share them with that person. My brother is a good example of that. I know talking to him about anything paranormal will only make me regret the discussion.

I think with me, I'm finally getting past the pain from the losses, and to an extent the fear enough to be more open. I think part of the fear stems from having something going on in my house. That had been going on for years, and I have no idea who it is. I know that things have been knocked over for no reason, once a yard stick that was on top of my refrigerator flipped off and hit my ex. Another time a thick heavy duty cord that used to run around near my ceiling in the kitchen to our old air conditioner flew off of the wall and also hit him. I have seen things move with no one near them....no explaination. Then later, after my ex sister in law had passed away, I watched the football she had given my son for Christmas a week before she died, roll end over end about 4 feet across the carpet in the livingroom. That time I knew it was her. There have been 2 times that I have seen a young girl here in the house, and I have no idea who she is, or why she is here. There have been quite a few bad things that have happened here. After the house burned and was rebuilt, I was hoping that the activity would stop, but instead it was the beginning of the string of misfortunes/bad things that went on. It doesn't seem to have the same strength these days as it once did though.

I have a blessed Benedictine medal that I keep here now. It has an exorcrism prayer on the back of it. My mother had gotten it for me from her priest. Right now my brother is staying here with my sons and I. He will be moving out soon. He does not believe in anything in spiritual activity. After he moves, I'm planning to use a sage smudge stick all through the house. That's something that's never been done here before to my knowledge. I've lived in this house for 21 years now, and it burnt almost 10 years ago. After the house was rebuilt, things got pretty bad here. These days, I can't really tell if much is going on because there's been too much tension here to notice. I'm hoping that will change after my brother is able to get moved.

yes this problem occurs in your haring maybe  little problem with air you not listen one time. if its ocure one time then no problem if many times then consult to a doctor.