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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 6:57PM
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M_M,
Are you calling my words "Bigotry and Hate"?
I call it as I see it.
The reason I'm asking is... The reason is irrelevant.
Dave - Just a Man in the Mountains.
I am a Humanist. I believe in a rational philosophy of life, informed by science, inspired by art, and motivated by a desire to do good for its own sake and not by an expectation of a reward or fear of punishment in an afterlife.
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:01PM
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Show me and stop being an irrelevant ass. Thanx, Ur2
Health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.
The next best thing to being clever is being able to quote someone who is.
"Truth is mighty and will prevail. There is nothing the matter with this, except it ain't so." Samuel Langhorne Clemens
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:02PM
#43
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Show me instead of being an irrelevant a*s. Thanx, Ur2
Health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.
The next best thing to being clever is being able to quote someone who is.
"Truth is mighty and will prevail. There is nothing the matter with this, except it ain't so." Samuel Langhorne Clemens
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:05PM
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Show me instead of being an irrelevant a*s.
ROTFLMFAO!
Dave - Just a Man in the Mountains.
I am a Humanist. I believe in a rational philosophy of life, informed by science, inspired by art, and motivated by a desire to do good for its own sake and not by an expectation of a reward or fear of punishment in an afterlife.
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:28PM
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Dear ROTFLMAO Mountain_Man, Go back and prove your point. All I'm asking YOU to do is show "Hate & Bigotry" in my posts. It's as simple as that. If you cannot accept that everyone does NOT think like you, then you have a problem. If you expect everyone to think like you, then you have another problem. If you think that everyone that does NOT think like you speaks "Hate & Bigotry", then you have a problem. My posts spoke of my disagreement with this proposition and included the input, hindsight and thinking of 5Well-Meaning Lesbian Aunties who have differed from this activity for the "Freedom they have" and the money they have from not having this added responsibility. They're old now, but I still hold them up against any of the BS being projected on this subject by many that probably have no dog in this fight to begin with. Mountain_Man... Are you wanting to adopt children? Huh? If you are, then please keep on with your BS, but if you're not... then you are irrelevant. Irrelevant... Thanx, Ur2
Health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.
The next best thing to being clever is being able to quote someone who is.
"Truth is mighty and will prevail. There is nothing the matter with this, except it ain't so." Samuel Langhorne Clemens
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:40PM
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Please go back and read to what I was posting to.
I read every post in this thread before I posted to you.
Go back and read my posts and tell me what is "Bigoted and Hateful" in my posts
I cited in my post exactly what I found objectionable and offensive, but since you evidently didn’t read it the first time I shouldn’t bother again, but I will. So again: “I see the usual answer from the Liberals is to label every idea other than their own as bigotry and hate. That's as tawdry a ploy as one can grovel for, but not entirely new.” Insulting, hateful, bigoted and dismissive!
...unless you can provide something personal along these lines of your accomplishments.
One son, seven stepchildren and 28 foster children.
what have you to say of Gays adopting children?
There are children in the U.S. that go to bed every night dreaming that someday someone will walk through the door and adopt them. That there are children in the U.S. who wonder what they did wrong because no one loves them. That there are children in the U.S. that have never known what it was like to sit around the table with family at Thanksgiving. Some of these children won't be adopted because they aren't cute babies, they have problems because of abuse, or they are disabled or disfigured. There are thousands of these children and if someone wants to try to be parents to these children let them!
It's easy to sit back and talk about how gays shouldn't adopt children when you have never held a sobbing child in your arms wanting to know what is wrong with them that no one has adopted them! Since you are such a wonderful parent who is an expert at raising wonderful children into perfect human beings how many of these desperate love-starved children have you taken into your home to care for? Considering what you say about your age, maybe a 100 or so?
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 7:47PM
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Dear ROTFLMAO Mountain_Man,....
I fail to understand why you fail to understand that I have absolutely no interest in debating your Right Wing extremism. I thought I was making it obvious. I'll choose my words more carefully in the future.
Dave - Just a Man in the Mountains.
I am a Humanist. I believe in a rational philosophy of life, informed by science, inspired by art, and motivated by a desire to do good for its own sake and not by an expectation of a reward or fear of punishment in an afterlife.
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 8:12PM
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MM, you used the phrase "Right Wing extremism" and it got me to thinking. What kind of parents do Right Wing extremist make and should they be allowed to adopt children? I'm not being facetious but asking where are the limits. There are all kinds of people someone could question as being good parents. How about people who are overweight? How about people who aren’t the right color? How about people too talk or too short? How about people who have illnesses (I know there are some restrictions, but there could be more)? How about people who wear too much jewelry? How about someone who spends too much time on the computer ;-) We can place all kinds of limits on who should be parents, but as long as there are more adoptable children than adoptees then why do we need to place more restrictions on who can adopt a child? I remember a story I read about mothers in Haiti feeding their children mud pies because the mother’s had no food. The children were dying of starvation. Many of these children could be adopted. As long as there are children like that how can we quibble over if gays can adopt? IMO such a debate is irresponsible.
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2 years ago ::
Aug 20, 2011 - 8:25PM
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MM, you used the phrase "Right Wing extremism" and it got me to thinking. What kind of parents do Right Wing extremist make and should they be allowed to adopt children? I'm not being facetious but asking where are the limits.
They do not make very good parents. There's a test that is almost 100% right. There is a baby, just been fed, has a clean diaper, is in no pain, but is crying. A Liberal will pick up and nurture the child. The "conservative" will say the baby has to learn to take care of itself. "Conservative" parents, the extremist ones, expect children to be miniature adults in their thoughts, emotions, and actions. That's a good way to produce a really screwed up kid.
There are all kinds of people someone could question as being good parents. How about people who are overweight? How about people who aren’t the right color? How about people too talk or too short? How about people who have illnesses (I know there are some restrictions, but there could be more)? How about people who wear too much jewelry? How about someone who spends too much time on the computer ;-) What about straight parents that beat their children daily? What about straight parents that constantly fight? What about straight parents that are drunks? Etc. It wasn't that long ago in US history that children were taken away from parents of the wrong color.
We can place all kinds of limits on who should be parents, but as long as there are more adoptable children than adoptees then why do we need to place more restrictions on who can adopt a child? I remember a story I read about mothers in Haiti feeding their children mud pies because the mother’s had no food. The children were dying of starvation. Many of these children could be adopted. As long as there are children like that how can we quibble over if gays can adopt? IMO such a debate is irresponsible. That gays should not have children, or adopt, is based solely on ignorance and bigotry. Gays have been having, and raising, children for tens of thousands of years with no harm to any society. The bigotry behind any anti-gay stand is more harmful to kids, and our society, than anything any gay could do.
Dave - Just a Man in the Mountains.
I am a Humanist. I believe in a rational philosophy of life, informed by science, inspired by art, and motivated by a desire to do good for its own sake and not by an expectation of a reward or fear of punishment in an afterlife.
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2 years ago ::
Aug 21, 2011 - 8:54AM
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They [right-wing extremist] do not make very good parents. There's a test that is almost 100% right. There is a baby, just been fed, has a clean diaper, is in no pain, but is crying. A Liberal will pick up and nurture the child. The "conservative" will say the baby has to learn to take care of itself. "Conservative" parents, the extremist ones, expect children to be miniature adults in their thoughts, emotions, and actions. That's a good way to produce a really screwed up kid.
IMO that is as offensive as what he said! One of the most extreme Christian groups in the nation are the Amish. Their children are seldom not held for the first three months of life. I live in a very conservative county and the parents I know are for the most part very good parents. You simply can't say what liberal do or what conservatives do. There are all kinds of people in all groups –good people, bad people, loving people, hateful people, reasonable people, unreasonable people. Any time a poster says the _____s do... you have already lost the argument. A group is filled with individuals. They may agree on a few things, but you put two of them side-by-side and they will agree on a lot less than you think. Where is the link to a test you refer to? Without that link your reference is meaningless. Most people on forums know that. I have been on forums/bulletin boards for 20 years and people out the just saying things without backing them up is pretty lame. People can say anything and on forums be ready for someone to say “prove it”.
Gays have been having, and raising, children for tens of thousands of years with no harm to any society.
I think that what some my not know is there are thousands if not hundreds of thousand (or more) BIOLOGICAL children of gay/lesbian people that were once married and try to be/act like they were straight. That pressure is off a lot because it is now acceptable not get married soon out of school and not have children until later in life.
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