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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 7:08AM #81
darcamani
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Human sexuality is about who one is, the preference issue is separate and a choice.


I am a human.  I am a woman and I fell head over heals in love with another woman.  I do not prefer women over men.  I simply am a woman that is geared towards women.  Not all women.  One. I wake up in love and gently surprised every morning.


I hope at least some other human sexuals find this wonder. 


I was a gay girl, without sex, was celibate at different times,  as an adult, was able to breed, still gay.  It is not about the sex.


My heart beats faster with one person who is a woman.  She is my friend, my partner, we hold hands, even when sleeping.  I never dreamed...


This is different from a little kid playing dress up, on Halloween, at a christian preschool. He wanted to be Daphne for a day.


What happened to the kid that wanted to be Jesus?


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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 8:30AM #82
REteach
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Dragoon, I'm not sure I see your point at all. So sexual orientation is about sexual orientation. For both gays and straights.  Since it is across the board, why bring it up in the first place? If it is a human condition, why did you initially bother to make a statement about gays and sex alone?  I think that is where you went wrong.


However, sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.  That seems to be about adults sexualizing children--and assuming that females are a lesser part of the human race

I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I am not sure you realize what you heard was not what I meant...
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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 12:01PM #83
mainecaptain
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Nov 16, 2010 -- 8:30AM, REteach wrote:


However, sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.  That seems to be about adults sexualizing children--and assuming that females are a lesser part of the human race




Exactly REteach. Children do not think that way. He was just playing make believe. Something that is considered healthy.

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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 6:41PM #84
DragoonEnNoir
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Nov 16, 2010 -- 8:30AM, REteach wrote:


Dragoon, I'm not sure I see your point at all. So sexual orientation is about sexual orientation. For both gays and straights.  Since it is across the board, why bring it up in the first place? If it is a human condition, why did you initially bother to make a statement about gays and sex alone?  I think that is where you went wrong.


However, sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.  That seems to be about adults sexualizing children--and assuming that females are a lesser part of the human race





Read the early posts in this thread.


People were commenting on this issue as a 'homosexual' issue. The entire intent of the post was to remind people that a child dressing in female clothes is not about homosexuality.


...as you put it, "sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.'


 


Interesting how people seem to jump straight from 'I disagree'/'I don't understand' into personal attacks. Then they talk about how other people are full of hate...
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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 6:45PM #85
DragoonEnNoir
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Nov 16, 2010 -- 2:42AM, JCarlin wrote:


Nov 16, 2010 -- 12:44AM, DragoonEnNoir wrote:

Once again, please read what I actually wrote ;)



Or, as REteach reminds us in every post "I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I am not sure you realize what you heard was not what I meant..."


It is not always clear that what you think you said is what you really meant.  If a lot of people are interpreting everything you write as being about sex, maybe what you said is not what you meant, or maybe what you said is what you meant, and you need to rethink what you are saying. 


 





Perhaps. And perhaps instead of looking at what others can do, it might also be helpful to look at yourself and what you can do differently.
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3 years ago  ::  Nov 16, 2010 - 6:47PM #86
DragoonEnNoir
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Nov 16, 2010 -- 6:41PM, DragoonEnNoir wrote:


Nov 16, 2010 -- 8:30AM, REteach wrote:


Dragoon, I'm not sure I see your point at all. So sexual orientation is about sexual orientation. For both gays and straights.  Since it is across the board, why bring it up in the first place? If it is a human condition, why did you initially bother to make a statement about gays and sex alone?  I think that is where you went wrong.


However, sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.  That seems to be about adults sexualizing children--and assuming that females are a lesser part of the human race





Read the early posts in this thread.


People were commenting on this issue as a 'homosexual' issue. The entire intent of the post was to remind people that a child dressing in female clothes is not about homosexuality.


...as you put it, "sex doesn't seem to enter in at all to a boy dressing as a girl for Halloween.'


 


Interesting how people seem to jump straight from 'I disagree'/'I don't understand' into personal attacks. Then they talk about how other people are full of hate...




 


Oh... the 'Interesting' comment was not directed at your post ;)
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