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10 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 5:40PM #21
DustyLady
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Well, Shiloh, it seems like you can't find any other way out of this marriage you keep going on and on about.

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10 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 9:13PM #22
shiloh43
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i just think he should try levitra he should try talking to his doctor and asking him and telling him about it. I think that i would be more patient and let some things slids if I even seen him trying to go to the doctor and asking for help and trying new things and at least acting interested and trying to be romantic and giving me some kind of attention you know. But I dont see any of that, all i hear is excuses and all,and to be honest i dont know if thiose feelings would even come back if he did, do that, because i have been emotionally abused and verbally abused for so long in every way and i gues in a way sexually to by him not doing anything at all and i dont even know why, that those feelings are gone. does that really haappened dusty? do you really get to that point that you cant get that back.
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 7:36AM #23
DustyLady
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Shiloh, you keep asking the same questions over and over again, even after quite a few people have given you very good answers.  I'm no longer going to respond to this issue, because I can't say anything more than what I've already said.  And said, and said again.

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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 8:16AM #24
MindEntrapment
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never tried it but have read about it
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 12:44PM #25
VG59
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Shiloh, it sounds like you have far deeper problems with you mate than just in bed.  I'd suggest taking care of those first before thinking of having sex with him. Maybe it is time to get out and find a place where abuse is not the dominating theme of your life.  Peace, Val
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 12:45PM #26
VG59
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Hypertension can be one of the factors related to ED.  However, get the hypertension treated to save your life not to have an erection.  Priorities.
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 2:41PM #27
shiloh43
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evidently he doesnt like to treat either cause now he wont even take that medicine, he has this wild theory that its gone away. hes had it for 5 years and its a fmaily genetic. i dont think it is.
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 3:47PM #28
DustyLady
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Then if he's not treating it, the last thing he needs to be doing right now is doing anything to elevate his blood pressure, and that includes sex.  Unless you want to pick out a nice coffin for him.

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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 4:02PM #29
shiloh43
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Dusty he doesnt have sex when he does take the medicine, so its reall sexless for me, I always thought that men valued that part of their life and would do whatever it took to keep their sex life, even taken viagra or whatever after all thats what its for is for men that have health problems so that they can keep having sex. besides i might be more patient if he was holding me a night and doing other things like foreplay until he got to that point, and then couldnt i mean i could use a tpy then, but just to have some amount opf loving or whatever would be better than this which is nothing at all., so you can see how frusterated i must be cause of no attention of any kind at all and he doesnt acre to try or atleast say no i am never going to have sex with yiou again cause i dont wont to or whatever go find someone else to do that part. something instead of making me wander if its something totattly wrong with me and making me feel no  man will ever want me. Thats not tru by the way. because none of what bothers my husband about my body bothers my friend isnt that weird. I am sorry but I am not going to be anorexic for any man at all.
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10 years ago  ::  Nov 25, 2007 - 10:26PM #30
VG59
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First it is very doubtful that his blood pressure will rise to a point of killing himself during sex.  That happens very rarely. 

Some antihypertensives lower the libido, way way low.  They block adrenaline and it is hard to get excited about anything.  They can also contribute to depressive like mood. 

His doctor should be told about the side effects, he can change the prescription to help this. 

However, you need to address the issue of the admitted verbal and emotional abuse before you allow this man to be pleasured by you.
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