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6 years ago  ::  Nov 20, 2007 - 9:40PM #11
DustyLady
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Actually, practitioners of both Taoist and Tantric sex believe that NOT having an orgasm both enhances and prolongs life. . . at least the life of the man.  But there's a lot more to it than that. 

And I do remind all that this is a PG-13 forum.

Dusty
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 21, 2007 - 1:50AM #12
kilgoretrout2006
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Um, how can you have a forum about sex without, you know, talking about sex?
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 21, 2007 - 6:42AM #13
DustyLady
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kilgoretrout2006 wrote:

Um, how can you have a forum about sex without, you know, talking about sex?



Well, they do it on TV all the time.  Think about what kinds of things are seen in a PG-13 movie, and that gives you an idea of what is allowable on this forum.  Think of what you would say if your kids were in the room.

Dusty

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6 years ago  ::  Nov 23, 2007 - 10:42AM #14
VG59
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nOparkin,

From your posts, it appears that your husband is able to have orgasm it is just that he is having it much sooner than he or you would like him to.  Is this the case?  How long have you been together and is this a recent problem. 

My understanding is erectile dysfunction is about getting and maintaining an erection until the act of orgasm is complete. 

If my understanding is true and he is acheiving climax, this is not about erectile dysfunction.  In that case tantric sex practices will help in my opinion.  If it is not the case, tantric sex practices will not help.
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 23, 2007 - 8:26PM #15
shiloh43
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do any of you believe that high blood pressure in a man really causes ed? if so does levitra really help solve it.
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 8:08AM #16
DustyLady
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If a man who has high blood pressure has sex, it can cause far more serious complications than ED.  Things like death, and stroke, and a heart attack come to mind.

Dusty
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 11:14AM #17
shiloh43
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even if hes taking medicine for it, so what does that mean for me never no sex again, i man going to be lonely then
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 5:29PM #18
n0parkin
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Yes, he is able to 'complete' but not able to last very long.  My understanding is that this is encompassed in the definition of ED.  I may be mistaken. 

I'm actually discovering that this isn't our problem.  I used to play a game called the 'SIMS'.  In it, the 'people' would have these meters, one for hunger, for example.  If they didn't get enough to eat, their hunger meter would go into the red, and you would have problems with this 'person'.  I think I have a 'touch' meter - much like the hunger meter in these computer people.  I was wanting sex to last longer because I needed more of the touch part.  We have talked about this, and it doesn't really matter how long the act itself lasts, as long as we have enough touching, hugging and kissing first or even afterwards. 

So we're focusing on what makes sex good - for me at least - instead of trying to make it last longer.  As long as we sometimes focus on this other part, the fact that the actual intercourse doesn't last very long becomes less important.
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 5:40PM #19
DustyLady
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Well, Shiloh, it seems like you can't find any other way out of this marriage you keep going on and on about.

Dusty
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 24, 2007 - 9:13PM #20
shiloh43
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i just think he should try levitra he should try talking to his doctor and asking him and telling him about it. I think that i would be more patient and let some things slids if I even seen him trying to go to the doctor and asking for help and trying new things and at least acting interested and trying to be romantic and giving me some kind of attention you know. But I dont see any of that, all i hear is excuses and all,and to be honest i dont know if thiose feelings would even come back if he did, do that, because i have been emotionally abused and verbally abused for so long in every way and i gues in a way sexually to by him not doing anything at all and i dont even know why, that those feelings are gone. does that really haappened dusty? do you really get to that point that you cant get that back.
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