I have been married for over 40 years and have two grown children who have their own families.  In the past year I found a lady who I wanted to marry before I met my current wife.  She has had three marriages.  The first was abusive and terminated. The second husband died.  The third was a rebound marriage which also ended in divorce.  We had not seen or communicated with each other until recently.  Both of us have regretted that we had not married originally.  We have not been physically together but have communicated extensively.  We do not live geographically close.  Both of us want an opportunity to see each other and fully feel that we should live out our years together.  My wife and I have communication problems, are not as intimate as once, not surprising maybe, and have a platonic relationship.  I still harbor more love for the original lady than I currently feel for my current wife.  I am considering whether to make do (duty) with my current life or make the change by divorcing so I can morally visit and see my previous love.  She has professed her love for me as well.