Personally, I want a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man..but wants a man...has her own interests and drives...does her own thing...a full time relationship doesn't do it for me anymore...a lady who is moral, but not a prude...reasonably attractive...and not only smart and kind..but a hellava sense of humor....

 Remember, for those of you old enough, the old Camel cigarette commercial?

I'd walk a mile...for a Camel....well, for such a woman I would walk 30 miles...

 God bless you all..and let's hear your comments!

david

Mar 14, 2010 -- 4:54PM, Hatman wrote:

David- Well, in addition to her loving me for who i am instead of who she thinks she can "improve" me into becoming, kindness and humility.  And no bad habits along the lines of abuse, adultery, or addiction, either...which would, of course, be incompatible with kindness and humility.  Warmest regards-  Hatman

I couldn't agree with you more, Hatman...and thank you for your sage comments!

I see more things that just the exterior of the package. I look for stability of character and faith. I also look for someone I can talk to easily.

I am happily involved in a relationship now. I actually met him when I wasn't "looking" for anyone in my life. He is kind and caring, maybe not always the way I expect but in his own way.

As a naturist/nudist, I don't put a whole lot of stock in physical attributes. If a person is good looking physically but ugly emotionally,spiritually or mentally she is just not attractive to me. I like a woman who is independent yet yielding when necessary, gracious to a point, and reassuring to no end. I don't like pampering and I don't like to be pampered. Just someone I can tell my secrets to and who will share hers with me without fear of being judged or ridiculed.