A man I met not even a week ago and I are in a very intense rebound relationship.  We both are rebounding :  he just separated from his wife and I just lost my husband.  We spend maybe 70% of our relationship grieving our losses, discussing our desires, regrets, sadness.  We have become instant best friends. 

We talk about love, about living together, marrying.  I don't think either of us thinks this is a sure thing.  We have also discussed that we're both on the rebound and that, by definition, many of these end.  But on the flip side, I've seen statistics that show that rebound relationships aren't any more doomed than any other kind. 

He's beginning to move in -  bringing his underwear over and his toothbrush.  There doesn't seem to be any logical reason why we shouldn't be together as much as possible.  I know that most people say you should avoid rebounds at any cost.  But this feels like the healthiest thing that has happened to me in a long time.  My question :  Can rebound relationships be healthy if both people are rebounding and harbor no illusions?  Thanks!