Ok, so I've had my profile on a local website.  There was this one particular guy who contacted me.  We emailed back & forth for a while & he seemed really nice.  Well, I sent him my picture when he asked for it, feeling ok with it.  The next thing I knew he had been talking to someone else & he wanted to pursue that relationship.  Ok.  So be it.  So long.

So I changed my profile.  He is the second one to contact me.  It's been a couple months since I talked to him last.  I'm not asking to speculate what is on his mind.  He was very polite, he at least ended it instead of telling me he'd call me later only to never call me again, I wasn't given the power to read minds so I just take people's word at face value.  I'm just wondering...

Should I even reply?
Should I give him another chance?

And of course I would tell him up front that I am the chick he blew off.  I think I can do that in a polite way.

Thanks for your input, guys.

Thanks for your reply.  I have an open mind & sometimes that has not been to my benefit.  You know that they say... open your mind too much & your brain falls out.  I'm going to resist the urge to contact him & let him know who I am.  Besides, he only emails me from his work email, which might indicate that he's fooling around on someone.

Hipi75 wrote:

Ok, so I've had my profile on a local website.  There was this one particular guy who contacted me.  We emailed back & forth for a while & he seemed really nice.  Well, I sent him my picture when he asked for it, feeling ok with it.  The next thing I knew he had been talking to someone else & he wanted to pursue that relationship.  Ok.  So be it.  So long.

So I changed my profile.  He is the second one to contact me.  It's been a couple months since I talked to him last.  I'm not asking to speculate what is on his mind.  He was very polite, he at least ended it instead of telling me he'd call me later only to never call me again, I wasn't given the power to read minds so I just take people's word at face value.  I'm just wondering...

Should I even reply?
Should I give him another chance?

And of course I would tell him up front that I am the chick he blew off.  I think I can do that in a polite way.

Thanks for your input, guys.

Yeah, he's certainly up to something no good.  But yep, I'D certainly reply, with enough pieces of my mind to make him think twice about being a player again, and ESPECIALLY about cheating on his wife, if that's what he's doing.

Alternatively, you could play with his head and pretend like you've never met him before, string him along, find out lots and lots about him(like getting his ph. # and doing a reverse directory on him, checking local real estate records of that address to find out if the title is jointly owned, etc.), then dump him like last month's garbage...right after leaving a nice note to let his wife, friends, family and boss(es) know what he's been up to on websites while she's been working her a** off...if that's the case.

Warmest regards-

Hatman

I have gotten a few but most are married.  I meant to say in the post above that I clearly stated NO MARRIED MEN.

Well he emailed me again.  I was going to just ignore him because there is someone else right now who has my attention.  Oh hell no!  I let him know who I was & what he did.  Of course I said it in a mature manner, but I was pretty cold.  So far no reply from him, but I don't really care.  I'm done with him.  He rejected me once, he lost his chance.  Why should I put myself on the line for someone who has already rejected me?  I'm moving on.

I can't even believe I considered giving him another chance to begin with.  That was that old junk in the back of my head put there by my crazy *ss family years ago.  I'm over it!