My question is really for the ladies but men can answer too.  My fiance is a very attractive man and everywhere he goes women always notice him.  Its like we can go anywhere and women of all ages and races are trying to get his attention.  Its so bad that they even follow us around when we are in stores.  When we are in  the car they will go so far as to pull up beside us and tell him that he is so attractive.  At first I thought it was funny but now its got to the point where I am aggravated.  I hate to go places with him b/c I know how its going to turn out.  Its really driving me apart from him and I dont know what to do about it.  Can anyone give me any advice as to what to do about this situation. Thanks for your feedback

Hey dolphin11 thanks for responding.  He didn't attract me by his looks.  Rather it was his sense of humor.  He is so funny.  I didn't really notice how attractive he was right away.  He actually gives them mean looks when they try to approach him. It was just that its starting to make me uncomfortable.

Personally, I would find it irritating.  BUT, he has a good response so he gets a gold star.

If he's not a cheater/womanizer, my thought is that he's dealt with this his whole life.  There are men like that--they're just gorgeous and women have chased them forever.  Some turn into "that guy"--the bad boy we all hate to love.  :p  But some truly are one-woman-men and want just that one person to be with, and understand that they are more than their looks.

I'd say to just tell your guy how you feel, and the two of you come up with a line that he'll use, like, "well, thank you--it must be the happy glow that my fiance gives me!  have a great day!" or something like that.

Have you ever seen a picture of Paul Newman when he was about 20?  Just think about that.  Time will heal this wound! :D