I am feeling your pain also because my husband has recently left.  He has been gone for a week now and I don't know where he is or who he is with and what he is doing.  We didn't really have an argument so I am completely bewildered on what is happening.  He has not made any type of contact with me what so ever so this is really got me about to lose it.   At least you are hearing from your husband and at least you two are communicating even if it isn't exactly what you want to hear.  This means there has got to be some hope that he will return.  Hang in there and pray on it as we all do when we have to face these adversities in life.