Welcome to the Divorce Forum, and sorry for the pain that ended your marriage. It was no doubt a big shock to discover that there had been contact with an ex, and that perhaps the problems that had been presenting themselves were not what was actually going on.
I hope you can stick around and interact with some of the other members here and maybe share some more of your story.
All the best.
ArnieBeeGut Beliefnet Community Host Divorce Forum
Welcome to the Divorce Forum, and sorry for what happened in your marriage. Infidelity creates some of the deepest pain and can be so hard to get over, even after the marriage ends. Maybe you would be willing to share a bit about what happened and how you have been able to move on.
All the best, ArnieBeeGut Beliefnet Community Host Divorce Forum
Hi there. I'm pretty new here. I got divorced for many reasons. One, my ex is bipolar and never sought help for it. He also told me that he decided he didn't want to have kids anymore, knowing that we had agreed to have children before we got married. A year after he left I found out that around the time things starting falling apart he was communicating with an ex-girlfriend of his. Coincidence? I think not.
