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2 years ago  ::  Aug 23, 2011 - 6:36PM #281
solfeggio
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Jane -


I have plain, straight, brown hair which is still plain, straight, brown hair.  LOL  I don't colour it, and I've always cut my own hair, mainly because I know what looks best on me.  Also, it's cheaper.  Stylists' are expensive!


But, getting back to stress:


I think this has something to do with the way we handle it.  I tend to be phlegmatic, I guess, taking things as they come.  I really fit the general description.  But, then, too, as Erey pointed out, it can be genetic as well.  My dad never got grey hair, although everybody else in his family did.


 

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 23, 2011 - 6:47PM #282
Erey
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Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:29PM, solfeggio wrote:


Dot -


Whilst I go along with much of what Hitchens, Dawkins, Harris and others have to say against traditional religious teachings, I have to part company with them at one point, which is that, unlike most atheists, I do believe in the paranormal. 


That is, I really do think that near-death experiences are valid, that genuine mediums exist, there is such a thing as telepathy, and that synchonicity is in some way meaningful, even if we don't understand how.  As well, I go along with Jung's concept of the archetype.


This has nothing to do with the concept of a personal god - or gods - which I do not believe exists, but rather with a feeling that there is more to the universe than we could possibly understand.  I always think that it is analogous to the relationship between humans and ants. 


If a human, walking along, happens to step on an anthill, the scurrying ants cannot possibly know whether the human has done this on purpose or if it was just happenstance.  If the ants were thinking beings with established ant religions, they might assume that what had happened to them was the result of their god's displeasure.  Therefore, they would pray to their ant god and offer sacrifices to appease him/her.


Assuming that nobody else comes along to step on their rebuilt anthill, the religious ants would assume that their prayers and sacrifices had worked, and they would continue in this practise, hoping to avoid further catastrophe.


Of course, sooner or later, somebody is going to come along and crush the anthill again, so the religious ants would have to figure out some new way of paclifying the deity.


To me, this is exactly how religion works, and why it is so badly flawed.  We humans are the ants in the universe.  We know nothing. 


 


 


 





 


I find the whole idea of atheists who believe in paranormal fascinating and I think you and a few other posters tried to explain it to me, but to be honest I could not get it.  To me I would call you agnostic but people insist that they can call themselves atheists with such views. 


I think our dear departed Agnostic Spirit was like that, self-described atheist but she felt there was more out there to the world.


 


For the record, I do believe in Near Death experiences, Ghosts and God.  I just can't really explain what God is or how he opperates with much confidence. 


 


I think you would enjoy a book I read a few years ago called Spook by a woman named Roach.


She is a scientific journalist and almost says she is an atheist but falls short of that.  She explores all of the after death issues like NDE (near death experiences), reincarnation, ghosts, etc.  She looks and analyzes all the studies done on these things.

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 23, 2011 - 7:30PM #283
jane2
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Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:36PM, solfeggio wrote:


Jane -


I have plain, straight, brown hair which is still plain, straight, brown hair.  LOL  I don't colour it, and I've always cut my own hair, mainly because I know what looks best on me.  Also, it's cheaper.  Stylists' are expensive!


But, getting back to stress:


I think this has something to do with the way we handle it.  I tend to be phlegmatic, I guess, taking things as they come.  I really fit the general description.  But, then, too, as Erey pointed out, it can be genetic as well.  My dad never got grey hair, although everybody else in his family did.


 




Life is one adventure and our personalties do influence how we travel it. Im a tad high-strung but that makes me who I am. For me laughter and a few minor hi-jinks are great medicine. I have fun almost everywhere I go, even in the supermarket.


Often I think of my hair stylist as part counselor. We love to laugh and tell stories. Before I moved to the northern burbs here I had the same stylist for close to 25 yrs. on the southside. She cut my children's hair, too. Her dad had been a US Navy officer and she had lived on Guam. She was  kick in the pants and she came to my husband's wake.


And so our stories unfold......................




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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 7:21AM #284
DotNotInOz
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Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:47PM, Erey wrote:


Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:29PM, solfeggio wrote:


Dot -


Whilst I go along with much of what Hitchens, Dawkins, Harris and others have to say against traditional religious teachings, I have to part company with them at one point, which is that, unlike most atheists, I do believe in the paranormal. 


That is, I really do think that near-death experiences are valid, that genuine mediums exist, there is such a thing as telepathy, and that synchonicity is in some way meaningful, even if we don't understand how.  As well, I go along with Jung's concept of the archetype.


This has nothing to do with the concept of a personal god - or gods - which I do not believe exists, but rather with a feeling that there is more to the universe than we could possibly understand.  I always think that it is analogous to the relationship between humans and ants. 


If a human, walking along, happens to step on an anthill, the scurrying ants cannot possibly know whether the human has done this on purpose or if it was just happenstance.  If the ants were thinking beings with established ant religions, they might assume that what had happened to them was the result of their god's displeasure.  Therefore, they would pray to their ant god and offer sacrifices to appease him/her.


Assuming that nobody else comes along to step on their rebuilt anthill, the religious ants would assume that their prayers and sacrifices had worked, and they would continue in this practise, hoping to avoid further catastrophe.


Of course, sooner or later, somebody is going to come along and crush the anthill again, so the religious ants would have to figure out some new way of paclifying the deity.


To me, this is exactly how religion works, and why it is so badly flawed.  We humans are the ants in the universe.  We know nothing. 




I find the whole idea of atheists who believe in paranormal fascinating and I think you and a few other posters tried to explain it to me, but to be honest I could not get it.  To me I would call you agnostic but people insist that they can call themselves atheists with such views.



Technically, I'm an atheist who believes in that "woo-woo" stuff myself. I don't believe in the "Big Parent God" with superpowers envisioned by so many religions. I think, instead, that what all of creation arose from was some vast generative energy field--maybe the Big Bang having been a monumental explosion of that field, perhaps something like pressure building in a volcano until it erupts.


I further think, as Solf suggested, that it's quite likely what we call spirit manifestations, ghosts and the like are simply natural phenomena which we can't as yet explain.


Eventually, it began to seem reasonable to me that ghosts actually are an energy remnant of a dead person that has gotten stuck somehow in a place where that person had been in life. Most of the dead go somewhere else to another form of existence, but some get caught for an unknown reason on our physical plane. (And yes, I too believe that mediums actually may be communicating with the dead. If you have a chance to see the documentary, No One Dies in Lily Dale, it shows some mediums working. Very interesting, Lily Dale being a primary Spiritualist center where mediums must be thoroughly tested and certified to assure they're not frauds.)


Seems to me possible that there are beings which are all energy and have never existed in physical bodies. These beings occasionally make their presence known to us and have become characterized by us as deities, angels, demons, etc. which relate to us in various ways often similar to how people relate to each other. In that sense, Jesus existed. However, so much human storymaking has added mythical details such as virgin birth to Jesus that it's impossible to discern what the spirit which we call Jesus may actually be like--not that we likely have the perception and intelligence to understand its nature anyway.


Thus, I think it possible that people who report being lifted from the path of a speeding vehicle and deposited somewhere out of harm's way did in fact have the aid of an "angel."


Possession by demons may be possible as well, although I'm less comfortable with this, wondering if it isn't mostly mental illness which unleashes aspects of the person's unconscious mind which seem like a completely different personality. Not sure.


So, yeah, I suppose you'd say I'm an atheist who believes in freako stuff myself.


 

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 7:39AM #285
DotNotInOz
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Btw, Solf, did you know that Sam Harris has stated he thinks there is some sort of mystical aspect to human existence? I think it was near the conclusion of his book, The End of Faith, that he explains how he came to think so, mostly as a result of some inexplicable experiences he had during meditation, if I recall correctly.


I've read elsewhere that he's gotten a fair amount of flak about that from some of the other neo-atheists.

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 2:57PM #286
Erey
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Aug 24, 2011 -- 7:21AM, DotNotInOz wrote:


Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:47PM, Erey wrote:


Aug 23, 2011 -- 6:29PM, solfeggio wrote:


Dot -


Whilst I go along with much of what Hitchens, Dawkins, Harris and others have to say against traditional religious teachings, I have to part company with them at one point, which is that, unlike most atheists, I do believe in the paranormal. 


That is, I really do think that near-death experiences are valid, that genuine mediums exist, there is such a thing as telepathy, and that synchonicity is in some way meaningful, even if we don't understand how.  As well, I go along with Jung's concept of the archetype.


This has nothing to do with the concept of a personal god - or gods - which I do not believe exists, but rather with a feeling that there is more to the universe than we could possibly understand.  I always think that it is analogous to the relationship between humans and ants. 


If a human, walking along, happens to step on an anthill, the scurrying ants cannot possibly know whether the human has done this on purpose or if it was just happenstance.  If the ants were thinking beings with established ant religions, they might assume that what had happened to them was the result of their god's displeasure.  Therefore, they would pray to their ant god and offer sacrifices to appease him/her.


Assuming that nobody else comes along to step on their rebuilt anthill, the religious ants would assume that their prayers and sacrifices had worked, and they would continue in this practise, hoping to avoid further catastrophe.


Of course, sooner or later, somebody is going to come along and crush the anthill again, so the religious ants would have to figure out some new way of paclifying the deity.


To me, this is exactly how religion works, and why it is so badly flawed.  We humans are the ants in the universe.  We know nothing. 




I find the whole idea of atheists who believe in paranormal fascinating and I think you and a few other posters tried to explain it to me, but to be honest I could not get it.  To me I would call you agnostic but people insist that they can call themselves atheists with such views.



Technically, I'm an atheist who believes in that "woo-woo" stuff myself. I don't believe in the "Big Parent God" with superpowers envisioned by so many religions. I think, instead, that what all of creation arose from was some vast generative energy field--maybe the Big Bang having been a monumental explosion of that field, perhaps something like pressure building in a volcano until it erupts.


I further think, as Solf suggested, that it's quite likely what we call spirit manifestations, ghosts and the like are simply natural phenomena which we can't as yet explain.


Eventually, it began to seem reasonable to me that ghosts actually are an energy remnant of a dead person that has gotten stuck somehow in a place where that person had been in life. Most of the dead go somewhere else to another form of existence, but some get caught for an unknown reason on our physical plane. (And yes, I too believe that mediums actually may be communicating with the dead. If you have a chance to see the documentary, No One Dies in Lily Dale, it shows some mediums working. Very interesting, Lily Dale being a primary Spiritualist center where mediums must be thoroughly tested and certified to assure they're not frauds.)


Seems to me possible that there are beings which are all energy and have never existed in physical bodies. These beings occasionally make their presence known to us and have become characterized by us as deities, angels, demons, etc. which relate to us in various ways often similar to how people relate to each other. In that sense, Jesus existed. However, so much human storymaking has added mythical details such as virgin birth to Jesus that it's impossible to discern what the spirit which we call Jesus may actually be like--not that we likely have the perception and intelligence to understand its nature anyway.


Thus, I think it possible that people who report being lifted from the path of a speeding vehicle and deposited somewhere out of harm's way did in fact have the aid of an "angel."


Possession by demons may be possible as well, although I'm less comfortable with this, wondering if it isn't mostly mental illness which unleashes aspects of the person's unconscious mind which seem like a completely different personality. Not sure.


So, yeah, I suppose you'd say I'm an atheist who believes in freako stuff myself.


 





Well I have to think you would enjoy Spook by ____ Roach which was something of a best-seller a few years ago.


 


Also, way cool IMO was a I book I read maybe 5 years ago called Ghost Hunters by Deborah Blum.  Blum is also a scientific journalist .  She describes in her book exploration of mediums by top drawer Royal Academy of Sciences  - Scientists.  Which is fascinating as it covers what was maybe a 30  year time frame of this exploration by these  true scientific giants.  Then as they aged they started to die and they started to make pacts with one another on how they would try and communicate beyond the grave.


Some of the Scientists were:


Charles Wallace (Co-authored with Darwin the Origen of Design)


William James and lots of others including scientists that discovered a element on the periodic table, etc. 


They discovered alot of fraud but at the same time enough truth to keep them interested.  It is amazing how hostile the scientific community was to them, and the religious community too.

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 7:18PM #287
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I did read Sam Harris' book, 'The End of Faith,' and liked it very much.  In fact, we own it.  There is also a documentary in which Harris, Dennett, Hitchens, and Dawkins discuss atheism, and this one is well worth watching, if you can find it.  I especially like Harris, though, because he is a little more accepting of that which we don't understand than the others, who just dismiss anything they cannot prove with hard science.


That fact that even intelligent, sensible people refer to the paranormal as 'freako' and 'woo-woo' shows what low regard this sort of thing is given in mainstream culture.  And this is such a shame, because there is a huge body of evidence supporting it in all its forms.


I've read so many books dealing with various paranormal subjects by so many reputable authors over the years that I always find it astounding that anybody would doubt that there are forces in the universe that are beyond our understanding.


For instance, there is that marvelous book by Rupert Sheldrake: 'Dogs That Know When Their Owners Are Coming Home, And Other Unexplained Powers of Animals.'  Sheldrake did exhaustive studies of various canines in their homes, showing beyond any reasonable doubt that the dogs did, indeed, somehow sense the precise moments when their owners were leaving their places of work. 


Animals can pick up information from humans without any deliberate attempt to communicate on the part of the humans.  And this works both ways.


The evidence is all anecdotal, of course, which means it cannot necessarily be duplicated in a lab, and so it is dismissed by most scientists.


Then, there is another great book, 'The Holographic Universe,' by Michael Talbot.  I've read this one several times.  Talbot proposes that what we think of as objective reality simply does not exist.  In other words, it's a hologram.  Our universe and everything in it are nothing more than ghostly images, projections from some sort of reality that is beyond space and time.


As psychologist Dr. Ken Dychtwald wrote of this concept: 'If we were to clook closely at an individual human being, we would immediately notice that it is a unique hologram unto itself; self-contained, self-generating, and self-knowledgeable.  Yet if we were to remove this being from its planetary context, we would quickly realize that the human form is not unlike a mandala or symbolic poem, for within its form and flow lives comprehensive information about various physical, social, psychological, and evolutionary context within which it was created.'


I know it all seems 'way out there, but many well-respected scientists subscribe to this theory.


 


 


 

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 8:55PM #288
jane2
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On and on and on with this never-ending thread.


Not all of us care about other perceptions of god/no god or the extra sensory. I think the extra sensory exists, but I don't need a lot of outre input about it.


If I want to do theology/philosophy I go to the Discuss Catholicism board where there are many who have actually studied in depth. Kooks there, too; I just avoid them.


This board is devolving into Kool-Aid Land. Interpret at will.....................


Most with any sense can determine a healthful regimen if they choose.


Online schmoozing can get old, y'all. Pat my back and I'll pat yours........it's 7th grade stuff. In the end real leaders emerge as they often did in grade school forward.


Smile, engage.......yada, yada.


 

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 11:40PM #289
Erey
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Just a idea Jane, try it on for size - if a thread starts to get tedious disengage.  You know this is not work, it is a hobby for all of us, nobody here is getting paid.  If a thread is no longer interesting to you then let it go.  Most of the threads are not very interesting to me.  Some are very interesting and I will follow them closely, others are only a little interesing and I will follow them for a short time and then ignore them.  Case in point, I posted probably 6 times to the Riots in London thread.  It is still going strong, probably at least 50 posts since then and I have not been back to read them. That thread is not longer interesting to me.   Then others are not interesting at all and I never even open them.


Just a thought

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2 years ago  ::  Aug 24, 2011 - 11:49PM #290
Wanderingal
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Jane says--


"Online schmooz can get old. Yada yada."


 


 


Uh--this is a venue for people to talk to each other.


What did you think it was for?

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