| 2 years ago :: Aug 23, 2011 - 6:36PM #281 | |
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Jane - I have plain, straight, brown hair which is still plain, straight, brown hair. LOL I don't colour it, and I've always cut my own hair, mainly because I know what looks best on me. Also, it's cheaper. Stylists' are expensive! But, getting back to stress: I think this has something to do with the way we handle it. I tend to be phlegmatic, I guess, taking things as they come. I really fit the general description. But, then, too, as Erey pointed out, it can be genetic as well. My dad never got grey hair, although everybody else in his family did.
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 23, 2011 - 6:47PM #282 | |
I find the whole idea of atheists who believe in paranormal fascinating and I think you and a few other posters tried to explain it to me, but to be honest I could not get it. To me I would call you agnostic but people insist that they can call themselves atheists with such views. I think our dear departed Agnostic Spirit was like that, self-described atheist but she felt there was more out there to the world.
For the record, I do believe in Near Death experiences, Ghosts and God. I just can't really explain what God is or how he opperates with much confidence.
I think you would enjoy a book I read a few years ago called Spook by a woman named Roach. She is a scientific journalist and almost says she is an atheist but falls short of that. She explores all of the after death issues like NDE (near death experiences), reincarnation, ghosts, etc. She looks and analyzes all the studies done on these things. |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 23, 2011 - 7:30PM #283 | |
Life is one adventure and our personalties do influence how we travel it. Im a tad high-strung but that makes me who I am. For me laughter and a few minor hi-jinks are great medicine. I have fun almost everywhere I go, even in the supermarket. Often I think of my hair stylist as part counselor. We love to laugh and tell stories. Before I moved to the northern burbs here I had the same stylist for close to 25 yrs. on the southside. She cut my children's hair, too. Her dad had been a US Navy officer and she had lived on Guam. She was kick in the pants and she came to my husband's wake. And so our stories unfold...................... |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 7:21AM #284 | |
Technically, I'm an atheist who believes in that "woo-woo" stuff myself. I don't believe in the "Big Parent God" with superpowers envisioned by so many religions. I think, instead, that what all of creation arose from was some vast generative energy field--maybe the Big Bang having been a monumental explosion of that field, perhaps something like pressure building in a volcano until it erupts. I further think, as Solf suggested, that it's quite likely what we call spirit manifestations, ghosts and the like are simply natural phenomena which we can't as yet explain. Eventually, it began to seem reasonable to me that ghosts actually are an energy remnant of a dead person that has gotten stuck somehow in a place where that person had been in life. Most of the dead go somewhere else to another form of existence, but some get caught for an unknown reason on our physical plane. (And yes, I too believe that mediums actually may be communicating with the dead. If you have a chance to see the documentary, No One Dies in Lily Dale, it shows some mediums working. Very interesting, Lily Dale being a primary Spiritualist center where mediums must be thoroughly tested and certified to assure they're not frauds.) Seems to me possible that there are beings which are all energy and have never existed in physical bodies. These beings occasionally make their presence known to us and have become characterized by us as deities, angels, demons, etc. which relate to us in various ways often similar to how people relate to each other. In that sense, Jesus existed. However, so much human storymaking has added mythical details such as virgin birth to Jesus that it's impossible to discern what the spirit which we call Jesus may actually be like--not that we likely have the perception and intelligence to understand its nature anyway. Thus, I think it possible that people who report being lifted from the path of a speeding vehicle and deposited somewhere out of harm's way did in fact have the aid of an "angel." Possession by demons may be possible as well, although I'm less comfortable with this, wondering if it isn't mostly mental illness which unleashes aspects of the person's unconscious mind which seem like a completely different personality. Not sure. So, yeah, I suppose you'd say I'm an atheist who believes in freako stuff myself. |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 7:39AM #285 | |
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Btw, Solf, did you know that Sam Harris has stated he thinks there is some sort of mystical aspect to human existence? I think it was near the conclusion of his book, The End of Faith, that he explains how he came to think so, mostly as a result of some inexplicable experiences he had during meditation, if I recall correctly. I've read elsewhere that he's gotten a fair amount of flak about that from some of the other neo-atheists. |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 2:57PM #286 | |
Also, way cool IMO was a I book I read maybe 5 years ago called Ghost Hunters by Deborah Blum. Blum is also a scientific journalist . She describes in her book exploration of mediums by top drawer Royal Academy of Sciences - Scientists. Which is fascinating as it covers what was maybe a 30 year time frame of this exploration by these true scientific giants. Then as they aged they started to die and they started to make pacts with one another on how they would try and communicate beyond the grave. Some of the Scientists were: Charles Wallace (Co-authored with Darwin the Origen of Design) William James and lots of others including scientists that discovered a element on the periodic table, etc. They discovered alot of fraud but at the same time enough truth to keep them interested. It is amazing how hostile the scientific community was to them, and the religious community too. |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 7:18PM #287 | |
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I did read Sam Harris' book, 'The End of Faith,' and liked it very much. In fact, we own it. There is also a documentary in which Harris, Dennett, Hitchens, and Dawkins discuss atheism, and this one is well worth watching, if you can find it. I especially like Harris, though, because he is a little more accepting of that which we don't understand than the others, who just dismiss anything they cannot prove with hard science. That fact that even intelligent, sensible people refer to the paranormal as 'freako' and 'woo-woo' shows what low regard this sort of thing is given in mainstream culture. And this is such a shame, because there is a huge body of evidence supporting it in all its forms. I've read so many books dealing with various paranormal subjects by so many reputable authors over the years that I always find it astounding that anybody would doubt that there are forces in the universe that are beyond our understanding. For instance, there is that marvelous book by Rupert Sheldrake: 'Dogs That Know When Their Owners Are Coming Home, And Other Unexplained Powers of Animals.' Sheldrake did exhaustive studies of various canines in their homes, showing beyond any reasonable doubt that the dogs did, indeed, somehow sense the precise moments when their owners were leaving their places of work. Animals can pick up information from humans without any deliberate attempt to communicate on the part of the humans. And this works both ways. The evidence is all anecdotal, of course, which means it cannot necessarily be duplicated in a lab, and so it is dismissed by most scientists. Then, there is another great book, 'The Holographic Universe,' by Michael Talbot. I've read this one several times. Talbot proposes that what we think of as objective reality simply does not exist. In other words, it's a hologram. Our universe and everything in it are nothing more than ghostly images, projections from some sort of reality that is beyond space and time. As psychologist Dr. Ken Dychtwald wrote of this concept: 'If we were to clook closely at an individual human being, we would immediately notice that it is a unique hologram unto itself; self-contained, self-generating, and self-knowledgeable. Yet if we were to remove this being from its planetary context, we would quickly realize that the human form is not unlike a mandala or symbolic poem, for within its form and flow lives comprehensive information about various physical, social, psychological, and evolutionary context within which it was created.' I know it all seems 'way out there, but many well-respected scientists subscribe to this theory.
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 8:55PM #288 | |
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On and on and on with this never-ending thread. Not all of us care about other perceptions of god/no god or the extra sensory. I think the extra sensory exists, but I don't need a lot of outre input about it. If I want to do theology/philosophy I go to the Discuss Catholicism board where there are many who have actually studied in depth. Kooks there, too; I just avoid them. This board is devolving into Kool-Aid Land. Interpret at will..................... Most with any sense can determine a healthful regimen if they choose. Online schmoozing can get old, y'all. Pat my back and I'll pat yours........it's 7th grade stuff. In the end real leaders emerge as they often did in grade school forward. Smile, engage.......yada, yada.
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 11:40PM #289 | |
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Just a idea Jane, try it on for size - if a thread starts to get tedious disengage. You know this is not work, it is a hobby for all of us, nobody here is getting paid. If a thread is no longer interesting to you then let it go. Most of the threads are not very interesting to me. Some are very interesting and I will follow them closely, others are only a little interesing and I will follow them for a short time and then ignore them. Case in point, I posted probably 6 times to the Riots in London thread. It is still going strong, probably at least 50 posts since then and I have not been back to read them. That thread is not longer interesting to me. Then others are not interesting at all and I never even open them. Just a thought |
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| 2 years ago :: Aug 24, 2011 - 11:49PM #290 | |
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Jane says-- "Online schmooz can get old. Yada yada."
Uh--this is a venue for people to talk to each other. What did you think it was for? |
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