I love a woman with a few extra pounds..as the saying goes...love meat with my potatoes..skinny ladies never did it for me..I am Italian..love the curves.. 

anyone else care to add a thought or two on this?

have a great day!

Jun 24, 2010 -- 9:37AM, Faintly wrote:

Nothing wrong with that.  Better to know one's own tastes than to take a bite and spit it out.

you bet, Faintly..and beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

Jun 24, 2010 -- 9:48AM, Faintly wrote:

True, known a lot of drop-dead gorgeous people who don't have much in the way of compassion, empathy, understanding, tolerance, or love.  Wonder why it is that some of the people who got the least love growing up turned out to be the most loving.  (Of course, some of them could be serial killers too, but that doesn't help my point.)

you hit the nail on the head, Faintly..looks may attract me but it's what is underneath that keeps my interest..and intelligence, compassion, empathy, understanding is, to me, what makes a woman attractive, sexy and compelling.  

Jun 24, 2010 -- 10:02AM, Faintly wrote:

I'd have to say what makes anyone attractive, sexy, and compelling, is their natural personality and intellect....and how they balance this with their natural attributes, their spirituality, and their very human flaws. Yep, that's what does it for me. 

 

 

 

People who make it very clear that they are happy with themselves, with or without, my constant presence.  That allows me the freedom to be the same, I don't feel obligated, I don't have to think about them 24/7 - I can enjoy them when they're available and feeling sociable, and I can recluse and be a hermit when I want and not hurt anyone's feelings.

bingo...very, very well put!