I scared a boy away with my ocd. I couldnt stop texting so i scared him away. I explained this too him and i dont think he will fully understand. Screw him i dont need him anyways.
A former lover found me too much to handle also! Compulsions are hard to resist, aren't they? Perhaps you also are afraid of people. Can you get explanatory leaflets from a clinic? Try not to isolate.
I just wanted to say I read your post, and that I'm glad you seem to at least be on the way to making a healthy conclusion about the guy. If he can't handle the explanation, you deserve someone better, at least someone who understands what is actually going on! Fortunately, they DO exist. I have a friend with severe OCD and she is in a great relationship, so don't lose hope.