| 3 years ago :: Mar 07, 2010 - 7:52PM #11 | |
I think, speaking for myself, that happiness is a state of mind...maturity, overcoming hard knocks, appreciating the everyday things and realizing that having God in my life has made a difference..and also that people matter...that doing things for others matters...and good things come back to me so much more....and it's also a case of mind over matter..I don't mind and tough times don't matter..."this too shall pass.." |
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| 3 years ago :: Mar 08, 2010 - 9:08PM #12 | |
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I recently played in a chess tournament.
I was told that the Director of Play had praised me for taking {losses} `with good spirits'.
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| 3 years ago :: Jun 28, 2010 - 9:37PM #13 | |
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For me, happiness is a choice and a skill to be acquired as well. I have found myself in an environment that took every fiber of my being to lean on the Word of God and let Him bless me with the gift of Joy. In essence, many times it was necessary for me to really be focused in order to be happy because of circumstances with evironment. This is where skill came in, because choice alone did not "cut" it for me. Folk in the southern part of the country as a whole do seem to be a little more unreserved than many from other parts. Even so, it isn't the outward appearence of friendliness that captures me, it is the genuiness that has always gotten my appreciation. |
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| 3 years ago :: Jul 02, 2010 - 10:55AM #14 | |
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It is a destination and a choice we make. |
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| 3 years ago :: Jul 04, 2010 - 9:02AM #15 | |
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Maybe a person's mood (happy or crampy) does have something to do with the weather, but I don't think warm weather makes people happier in general. I came from Hong Kong, a tropical area, weather are always warm. I don't see people there are any happier than people here in Canada where I am living now. Does it have anything to do with where we live, I guess it does due to different communities and cultures, not because of the physical location. Is it a state of mind? I have heard someone says that, for human being who has strong desire of the flesh, it is easy for to hate than to love and be compassionate. I am sure no hateful person are happy people. I do believe hate and love are a state of mind, so is happiness a state of mind? I think so, but difficult to achieve. |
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| 3 years ago :: Jul 07, 2010 - 12:02PM #16 | |
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G'day Dunamus3: Folk in the southern part of the country as a whole do seem to be a little more unreserved |
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| 3 years ago :: Jul 08, 2010 - 11:53AM #17 | |
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Agree with most posts here. Have observed that there is a direct, high corelation between poverty and happiness. The old saw that the poor wish to be rich and the rich want happiness is true. Money gets in the way but it is handy. It has to be raised, nurtured, measured, controlled, organized and overseen. Like fire, it is a useful servant but a harsh governor. The true definition of wealth is spiritual wealth and not material largesse. Apart from choices and circumstances, human body chemistry can have a great impact. Depression and mania from sugar levels, sleep, sex, etc, can have strong effects on individuals. |
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| 3 years ago :: Jul 08, 2010 - 12:56PM #18 | |
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"Happy is the man that hath apprehended the Purpose of God in whatever He hath revealed from the Heaven of His Will that pervadeth all created things." (Baha'u'llah, The Kitab-i-Aqdas, p. 63) "Happy they who are endued with true wisdom and understanding, who see and perceive, who read and understand, and who observe that which God hath revealed in the Holy Books of old, and in this incomparable and wondrous Tablet." (Baha'u'llah, The Kitab-i-Aqdas, p. 139)
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| 2 years ago :: Dec 27, 2010 - 10:42PM #19 | |
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My companion had overestimated his ability to hike on a sunny day. As he continually collapsed with epilepsy, we had to take him straight home.
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Any further philosophical conjecture is bullshit!