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3 years ago  ::  Apr 17, 2012 - 2:01PM #1
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The year was 1977 and I was expecting our third child who was born on what would have been our 11th wedding anniversary, except my husband was killed in an auto collision.  I remarried and had a fourth child who made this video for myself and her siblings about the man who died so she could be born.  Without the death of Bruce I would not have married Roxanne's father who is Daddy to all our children.

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3 years ago  ::  Apr 18, 2012 - 2:07AM #2
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Dear Stardove,

What a horrible thing to go through--three children to raise, hormones in a turmoil from pregnancy and grief combined..and having the person you needed to get through it being the man you lost...but as you said, without his loss,the daughter who made the video wouldn't have existed.

I'm so glad that you did find someone to love who has a heart large enough to see all of your children as his. It's a quality the world needs more of, and how lucky both of those men were/are to have found you.

"You are letting your opinion be colored by facts again."
'When I want your opinion, I'll give it to you."
these are both from my father.
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