I'm posting this in the abuse forum too in the hopes that someone else has gone through this and can help? My ex was extremely verbally and emotionally abusive throughout my relationship with him and got physically abusive at the end. 

I recently found out that my ex boyfriend posted a video of me on a pornographic website meant to exploit exes. He sent me an email under the guise that he discovered this video online and wanted to warn me- but I know that he did this and this is just his manipulative way of trying to still hurt me.  I have never consented to being video taped during sex.  One of the many reasons for my break up with the ex was that he was addicted to pornography. I've been out of this relationship for over 3 years now but he continues to harass me. I've only been with 2 men in my life (my ex and my fiance) so I'm certain that it's my ex that did this.

The police are not helpful at this point:(

Can anyone give me any advice in the following areas: 

1. How do I get this video off the web? I tried joining this disgusting site so that I could contact their customer service- but that was a dead end. 

2. How can I legally get him to pay for this? I'm so angry and hurt by this.

3. Does anyone know of any organizations that help women in my situation? I feel totally exploited, harrassed and hurt by this and I don't know what to do. 

Thank you.