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6 years ago  ::  Oct 30, 2007 - 9:34PM #21
Atrus89
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 7:28AM #22
Al_Jaeger
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[QUOTE=White-Dove;34289]I thought it was interesting that the Father so demonized pagan faith. I thought that was rather a thing of the past. Why would the religious beliefs of our pre-Christian ancestors be automatically evil just because there are some evil practitioners. Same with the Catholic Church.[/QUOTE]

Make no assumptions this is a thing of the past. I certainly  matters where you are from. I used to live in the North east of the USA. There were so many religions and ethnic backgrounds there. It is a melting pot. There is little intolerance for other's faith. There were some prejudices but they seldom were subtle.
Five years ago, I moved to the South (Florida). The religious attitudes is tough here. I never witnessed such prejudice before. The Christion conservatives abound here. I mention that I hang with witches, they turn purple and start  spitting venom. Even when I mention I used to a Catholic, they sstart to blast the catholics. OMG!  It is their way or no way.

Keeping everything in perspective, it was even tougher here in the South 100 years ago. Just ask a black man, jew or Catholic that lived in the deep south back then. Things do change. It takes time and generations. There are covens near me that practice in rented churches. 50 years ago, Who would have thought this would happen ? Things do change.

It is better than it was even 50 years ago. I am sure it will be better in the next 50 years.
Look how many Wiccans and Pagans are out there. There were what..two? in 1950. Now there are tens of thousands. We need patience. We need to keep working at breaking down the walls of intolerance. If not for us, then  for our children.

I am off  the soap box.. Next!
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 8:58AM #23
Feinics
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but do we just blame the priest,is he a product of his age and society etc..? The women obviously had doubts about being in a religion outside of christianity before she asked this question to the priest!
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 10:17AM #24
Al_Jaeger
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No, we don't just blame the priest. But to what extent do we blame the women? I spoke earlier about those that are weak spiritualy. What ever she needed, she never recieved from her Pagan  past.   She could have stood up a bit better and defended what was in her heart. If anyone has issues in their current religion, ask and speak out.  Resolve it. 
However, for me, it is easy to put all the blame on the nasty, evil touting, pridefull priest.
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 10:29AM #25
Feinics
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you make a interesting point about being spiritually weak. Perhaps not all would agree with me but choosing to study or follow a pagan path is not the easiest. Especially if you come from a christian background. You go from being told what what is right  and wrong and how to live yer life to a world where you aren't being spoon fed.  Your opportunites to expand your spiritual and mental horizens are as endless  as you allow it to be. Its a path of self discovery and you need a strong sense of self and commitment to learning to stay on especially when s you continually  question especially those things you thought were set in stone.
Perhaps the women in this stage of her life wasn't ready or spiritually strong enough to stay on a path that can be at times pull the rug from under your feet and challenges you in such a way.
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 2:32PM #26
Al_Jaeger
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I do agree, Feinics. Great point and well made.  It is super difficult to walk this path. Gone are the days when a priest told me what to do, what  to read and what to think. It is almost as if I am a child again. I must now learn for myself, learn to walk again, see again and think for myself.  This is when we are the most vulnerable. I went through this. One of the hardest thing to do is go from Catholic to Pagan or Gnostic. Holy Cow!! What a back lash you get from the Christians. One has to get strong and become more mature spiritualy to over come the years of guilt, supersition and fear. How can I blame this women? Hopefully, she will grow. We all hope.
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 5:36PM #27
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....and then converted to fundamentalist Christian! Ive got enough guilt to last several lifetimes! Im now following my inner leanings....love of the earth,nature, and a feminine aspect of the supreme Spirit (ie goddess worship). Im doing this on my own, as Im pretty much alone geographically for the moment.  SOOOOOOOOOO, one can imagine the mental hoops I have to work through. BUT, It keeps coming back to  following what I KNOW in my 'Knower' - that there cant be just one male god who has a diefied son and an etheral holy spirit being who watch my every move and can read my mind and Im judged with damnation if I veer even a little from the narrow path. I coudnt comprehend the schizophrenic god who demanded genocide of some peoples, but then preached forgiveness and love. I couldnt stomach the attitudes of the believers who always had something to judge me about (style of dress, color of hair dye, type of jewelery, type of poetry that I wrote, I didnt spank my kids enough........yada yada) sorry, digressing. Anyway, I feel for this woman. She needs more than just a backbone, she needs to do alot of serious inner work and find what her soul really needs. She needs to stop believing with her mind. My friend in recovery always says that his mind is the scariest place for him to go alone...LOL
*Peace*
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 2:32PM #28
Al_Jaeger
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I do agree, Feinics. Great point and well made.  It is super difficult to walk this path. Gone are the days when a priest told me what to do, what  to read and what to think. It is almost as if I am a child again. I must now learn for myself, learn to walk again, see again and think for myself.  This is when we are the most vulnerable. I went through this. One of the hardest thing to do is go from Catholic to Pagan or Gnostic. Holy Cow!! What a back lash you get from the Christians. One has to get strong and become more mature spiritualy to over come the years of guilt, supersition and fear. How can I blame this women? Hopefully, she will grow. We all hope.
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6 years ago  ::  Oct 31, 2007 - 5:36PM #29
javababe
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....and then converted to fundamentalist Christian! Ive got enough guilt to last several lifetimes! Im now following my inner leanings....love of the earth,nature, and a feminine aspect of the supreme Spirit (ie goddess worship). Im doing this on my own, as Im pretty much alone geographically for the moment.  SOOOOOOOOOO, one can imagine the mental hoops I have to work through. BUT, It keeps coming back to  following what I KNOW in my 'Knower' - that there cant be just one male god who has a diefied son and an etheral holy spirit being who watch my every move and can read my mind and Im judged with damnation if I veer even a little from the narrow path. I coudnt comprehend the schizophrenic god who demanded genocide of some peoples, but then preached forgiveness and love. I couldnt stomach the attitudes of the believers who always had something to judge me about (style of dress, color of hair dye, type of jewelery, type of poetry that I wrote, I didnt spank my kids enough........yada yada) sorry, digressing. Anyway, I feel for this woman. She needs more than just a backbone, she needs to do alot of serious inner work and find what her soul really needs. She needs to stop believing with her mind. My friend in recovery always says that his mind is the scariest place for him to go alone...LOL
*Peace*
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6 years ago  ::  Nov 01, 2007 - 11:45AM #30
PomegranateStaindGrn
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I'm reading Rose's piece in parts. I've just finished reading what she has to say and it's so heart breaking what she's going through and doing to herself - for what? She feels empty and lacking because she sacrificed her soul for what the numbers tell her is the "right" thing. What a horrible reality for her. To obey the numbers and sacrifice your soul. I could cry.

So, I'm curious, where did Fr. Serpa get the idea that this had anything to do with Satan. I realize he is trying to persuade dear Rose, but she said "Paganism" not "Satanism".

Fear mongering works well - and there are groups that have it perfected. Poor thing. It's not easy to go out on your own and find yourself and find comfort within that self, but IMHO it's more gratifying than to buy into regurgitated garbage designed to make you a drone with no soul of your own.

Another question I have - if one professes to believe that these things are so wrong for them, why would they still be so drawn to them? Isn't our religion or spirituality something that is nurturing for us? If we remove a huge part of ourselves, something we found comfort, peace, and beauty in, it's only natural that we would feel a void. Then to try to fill that void with, what seems to me, a pale comparison is hardly soothing, comforting, or fulfilling. She's crying out, he's capitalizing on her fears, and yet her spirit still yearns for the Mother.

I get that Christians have enormous fear re: all things Pagan(ism). But there is so much information out there now that there really is no excuse for this degree of ignorance on the subject. While we are all too familiar with Christianity, it seems unimportant to them to learn about other faiths - they seem only to want to proselytize about their own and assume the worst about the rest.

Sorry.. going off on a tangent there...
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