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Nov 16, 2010 -- 2:12PM, teilhard wrote:

"Stuck-By-Cacti" -- Any Luck ... ???

The "Security" Question is exactly a large part of the Reason I interact here (mostly) in Public rather than by Private Messages ...

Jan 20, 2011 -- 2:53PM, KIND6004 wrote:

www.aarp.org  has been doing this new advertisement regarding when I grow up. Seems similar, to our posts about the bucket list their is a section which even non members can view. So Teilhard, maybe those who do plan on signing up for dating groups on line should purchase a good book and also study the security, ideas that most of them should promote. Always tell a child or friend about plans to date in the area so someone can make sure you arrive home safely, and make sure that you have a real name not sign in name. Never met at home, also they should know that your address, can be found on line and your phone number if you give the person your name, may want to use a throw away cell number in case you dont like the person, and never want to see them again. You can get a cheap fone service. But a lot of phones give your phone number and your identity when you call others. Also make sure you talk to the individual in the site. Those who want to immediately want to talk to you away from community or date line is not usually a good idea. Do not meet individual in your home, say a public coffee place or something like that, so that you are in view of others. Do not trade vehicles at meeting place. Just get to know person a little better before doing this. Suggestions but not all the advice you need for meeting with strangers, met on line invest in a good book. There are quite a few well written.

There are organizations, that have great comraderie, and offer lots of activities. So that is a good thought. Some work with blind, diabetes, hearing problems, visual diseases in this country and abroad. So that is something that others may wish to consider.

Seems even when the bucket lists the responses were only for each indivdual and others, remember the scene in the ghost movie when the guy who is the ghost gets Whoopie, to give that large sum of money to some nuns who are standing on the street corner, to help her chances to get into heaven. She fights it with all her being but in the last scene when she sees the light of heaven waiting she is probably glad.

All I can tell people when I hear a question like this is, yeah, it's possible, but it's harder at 52 than it is at 30, and a lot easier than it is at 62. The older you get the more difficult it is to hook up successfully with someone.

I'm 67 and single, and expect I'll remain that way.