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1 year ago  ::  May 08, 2013 - 11:40PM #1
rideronthastorm
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Why does Dr. Phil and our country try and monstrophy men and tell women to get divorced for no reason at all?

I saw part of the program today Dr. phil and saw a bunch of threads talking about it. A bunch of women said the man should be thrown into jail and labeled a monster sexual offender.

The woman should get a divorce and the 2 kids said they would never speak to their dad again.


What did the monster do? Well he took pictures of his wife said he was madly in love with her obsessed ahd neevr had an affair on her, more in love with her sense shes lost weight actually, he posted a nude photo of her on the net and his phone on a  porn sight.His grown up kids found them.
His son looks at porn regular on his Dads phone apparently.

The guy had never laid a hand on his wife hes never physically abused her; never cheated on her said he never wanted anyone else and the whole of the audience said she was in traumatic shock.


 


 They said he needed to be imprisoned for it and our society needed to label him sex offender and he should be locked up in prison.


About a  milliom people said it. Im disgusted with our country and with Dr Phil. Personally i think Dr, Phil has a conspiracy to monstrafy men and break up marriages he claims to be a marital counselor what a laugh i laugh in the face of Dr Phil.


But sense 10 billion people in America stood up and said this woman needs a divorce quickly where in the heck are our Christians in this country?

   Apparently there arent any, the guy never physically abuses his wife and has never had an affair and says hes madly in love with his wife.


I admit he needs some counseling but thats no reason for divorce, obviouly were in a hard drout for actual true Christians in this country.   


They stood up and monstrafied that man including his kids whom are grown ups and found the picture of their Mom, I know its humiliating , but and I definitly think some counseling is in order;


 But they said
theyre divorcing their Dad and never speaking to him again i think thats sad.I guess forgivness is dead in our country too.


Dr. Phil has also had a man who was too posessive and paranoid about his wife that shes cheating watches her all the time records her but twice she admits that on 2 occasions he did catch her having an affair.

Dr Phil again counseling them or at least the whole audience is telling her to get a divorce because of abuse.  The man never abused her physically nor did he have an affair infact she did, If anything hed be the one with cause for divorce but as usual Dr Phil has it labeled on the same level as physical abuse that its the same exact thing. Everyones telling her to get divorced.


They monstrafy him. Again I ask sense he hasnt had affairs nor physically abused her with all the people in America monstrafying him and telling her to get divorce on grounds of abuse where are all our Christians? Obviously we dont have very many.


Dr Phil is sick hes monstrafying all these men hes a sick person.     Hes twisting the situation into maiing them out to be monsters and abusers when theyre not, its wrong and Im very sorry to see our country is reducing our moral standards to this. 


     

      


   


    

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1 year ago  ::  May 09, 2013 - 2:38AM #2
Anesis
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When I think about these kinds of situations, I try to put myself into their shoes and imagine what each person might be feeling. In all fairness to Dr. Phil, in the first scenario, I would be fuirous if my husband put pictures of me nude - especially on a porn site and out where my parents and/or children could see me! I would be livid, and yes, that would feel akin to "pimping" my photos out without my knowledge. Totally unacceptable, and yes, in my opinion is a violation of my sexuality. My nude body is MINE to do what I want with....no one else's. If I wanted nude photos all over, I'd put them out there myself. So yes, that is as bad as a sexual offense. It is a sexual violation against his wife.


Normally, Dr. Phil has different values than mine, but in this situation I fully support his suggestion that the husband is fully at fault and it shoudl absolutely be illegal to post nude photos of someone without their knowledge.

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1 year ago  ::  May 09, 2013 - 1:48PM #3
rideronthastorm
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I didnt say he wasnt at fault. I would feel violated too and he needs to get counseling I said that. But according to biblical standards its not a reason divorce and by law its not a sexual offence. He certanly doesnt deserve to be put in jail he didnt break the law as far as being a sexual offender he doesnt deserve to be in jail.


Im saying that they go too far with it they tell her she needs to get divorced do you agree with that? According to scripture its not a reason and according to our laws hes not a predator.Weve got men out there raping molesting children serial killers, wife beaters and child pornographers out there that our law cant catch!


 They said he needs to be imprisoned and labeled a sex offender sorry no sale here. Weve got predators, molesters, wife beaters, rapists and child pornographers, pervs who flash people in public and also peepers we cant catch on the street because we dot have money or time. Nope I dont want our system wasting money and time on someone like that when we cant catch the monsters that are out there.


Hes sick but hes not a monster he doesnt deserve to be imprisoned labeled that way anyways.He needs help. Hey if you think they should get divorced your not Christian thats not biblical and Dr Phil is wrong to try and tell people that and yes  He does push people that way and I think its antifamily im offended by that.


Say what you want but its not biblical to divorce over something like that.

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1 year ago  ::  May 09, 2013 - 1:51PM #4
rideronthastorm
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Why didnt they blame the son who found it on his cell phone? Why should they? He said he uses his Dads cell phone to look at his Dads porn sights regular I think thats sick, i think his son needs as much help as he does.Thats how he found it what was he doing on there?

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1 year ago  ::  May 09, 2013 - 1:56PM #5
rideronthastorm
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You havent said anything about all the other marital situations, everytime I turn around hes trying to tell these couples to get divorce startinga  stink over it making the man look like  a monster. he monstrafies these men over stuff he shouldnt. They were talking a man over jealousy the other day they way he controls his wife by being jealous and and following her around he records her but not once twice he found her cheating on him she damitted it.


Then they monstrafied him told him it was abuse even though tehre was no physical abuse and told ehr to get divorce, hey man maybe the reason hes so freaking paranoid is because she is cheating on him!!!!!!!!!!!!To me shes the bad guy in this not him. Hey if he wants to stay with her he shoudnt try to break people up which is what he does, IMO Hes on witch hunt for men and trying to break up families, HES ANTIFAMILY in my book.

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1 year ago  ::  May 18, 2013 - 4:30AM #6
Estacia
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Personally, I have a hard time taking him seriously.



 

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