| 4 years ago :: Jan 31, 2009 - 1:18AM #11 | |
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| 4 years ago :: Feb 01, 2009 - 5:23PM #12 | |
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Mark_The_Servant
My point exactly. You just put it better. ;) Claudia |
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| 4 years ago :: Aug 03, 2009 - 10:14AM #13 | |
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I seen this thread and I felt the need to post. Good subject to get discussion on to start with I must say. I will probly break my responce down into several posts do to time, and being to lazy to type, and possibly space. To start I seen several posts from people saying about bringing in a point of veiw so I am here to do that. The question of suicide is a loaded one and can be veiwed from several angles. But ultimantly the answer is its wrong and leads to condemption. Not because God is a hateful or spiteful God but rather it is because we have turned ourselves away and deprived God the ability to do his will for our lives. I know first hand being in a situation and depression gets the best of you, you can not see it that way. Suicide is actually the result of a chain reaction of events. Sometimes its because a persons choice to stay were they are. Again I no it sounds cold and heartless but its the truth there are people that want life to fail so its their scapegoat. You also have people no matter what they do in this life it is nothing but a battle that you seem to loose in this life. No amount of help or resources are available in the time of need. You might have one person that can give a little to try and help you out of the Black Hole you are stuck in. In a state of depression that leaves a person suicidal typically the person is physically and menally drained of life, not to mention in some cases are looking at this world implodeing and feel they are dead or dieing anyway- staying alive just prolongs the pain. it don't help that peoples attitudes become if your a Christian or a Godly person you would never get down our depressed because Chirst and God are our Hope. Little do people know that can be the driving force to want to commit suicide. Its a means to escape the Living Hell we exsist in at this point. It can be an act of knowing there is a merciful ,just God and rather deal directly with him then to keep fighting what seems like a desperatly loosing battle. Depression itself is an intresting creature. For me it is comprised of a sad anger and also physically being drained. Another thing thats not understood by mainstream Christianity is some very Godly people fought depression and suicidal thoughts. For those who don't know or understand it they will never understand and would and do argue that its a twisting of the bible because it don't fit there preconceived notion of what Liveing in Christianity or Liveing Godly is all about. Just to quickly touch on that point with a few examples I'll revisit it later in depth in another post: The two that pop in my mind without thinking on it are Elijah anf Job. With Elijah what stands out is right after God preformed the Miracle on the alter of burning the drenched sacrifce and had slews of pagan priests killed he ended up plunging into depression once Jezebel decided to have him hunted and killed for haveing her "prophets" killed (1Kings19:4). With Job it was when then best of the situation got the best of him (Job 3- the entire chapter) . The book of Job is the picture of Life inside Depression from a Godly persons point of veiw. I said earlier that that suicide is putting condemnation on ones self. To understand this better you need to understand a parent child relationship. ( I know some people to some degree may not fully know what that is). We have free will, we can do whatever we wish , but every choice has a consenquince. Weather good or bad -it still has consenquences. If someone chooses to break the law- no matter how much the parent may try and keep the child from doing so, if the child chooses to break the law-- the law will take hold. There will be punishment in time. It might not be right away but it eventually will come even if it meens death in the proces of commiting a crime. The parent has no control over this, and it hurts those around the person that chooses that life but ultimantly its a choice, no matter what justification there is for it. The same with Suicide its a choice. If you hold on ( and at times it seems like an eternity) God will open doors in ways that blow the mind, in ways only God can do. The problen becomes we live in such a fast paced driven society that we have no concept of waiting on the Lord. Society as a whole demands that we smash in doors we can never open, jump thru hoops and dance around and flip around when we barly have the strength to breathe or keep our hearts beatting. We are thrusted into this circus act and instead of resting for a short season and letting dust settled we are smashed and crumpled and riped to shreds , we are already dead in our eyes so why not go to the potential source of the only peace we may ever know, the worst case its just the same as we are living now. I have been at deaths doorstep several times in my lifetime and not by any acts that i did upon myself. Being in those places and surviveing Pull you closer to God and also allow you to see how he works if you give him a chance to gather the resources needed to take you to a better place. In the skewed eyes of depression though you see God as a source to bury into and this life has you ripped away and seperated and the only way to get back into his arms is to enter his courtyard, and the only means of that is the portal of death. I hope this helped to shed some light on some things , also I missed something in reading the logs to see what was ever posted that was cold or derogitory or heartless to us folks that do suffer. I just seen a sincere question of curiousity to pick at peoples minds. |
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| 4 years ago :: Oct 05, 2009 - 4:14PM #14 | |
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I don't think there is a cut and dry answer on this. I was always taught that people who commit suicide do not go to Heaven. However, I have a friend whose aunt committed suicide, but she was mentally ill. She was schizophrenic, and having a very severe episode when it happened. So, I wonder if God forgives those who don't understand what they are doing? |
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