New Posts For Thread: Dating a Muslim manhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_manThis is my story. I am forty-one year old dating a thirty-year old Pakistani man. He wanted to get married a couple of months ago, but I refuse. I know he needed a green-card and why should I marry any men for those reasons. He still have remain inSalam brother,I would think that this is a situation where you choose the lesser evil. Yes, fornication is a sin, but homicide and domestic violence are also sins.So I don't understand why would it be a good solution for a woman to marry someone whohttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409461985#409461985Salam brother,I would think that this is a situation where you choose the lesser evil. Yes, fornication is a sin, but homicide and domestic violence are also sins.So I don't understand why would it be a good solution for a woman to marry someone whoFri, 09 Apr 2010 13:31:12 -0500Hi Iqbalmaya welcome!Hmm, this seems like a very fishy relationship, so i'd say, if your fairly confident that you can stay away from him [and this is obviously the best for you as you know; he also seems like a bit of a nutter if he's throttling youhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409460441#409460441Hi Iqbalmaya welcome!Hmm, this seems like a very fishy relationship, so i'd say, if your fairly confident that you can stay away from him [and this is obviously the best for you as you know; he also seems like a bit of a nutter if he's throttling youFri, 09 Apr 2010 13:16:58 -0500You are not and idiot! Women from all walks of life enter abusive relationships.Breaking an abusive relationship can be hard. You don't need to do this alone, you can have the help of friends, family or women's organizations that can help you break thttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409439953#409439953You are not and idiot! Women from all walks of life enter abusive relationships.Breaking an abusive relationship can be hard. You don't need to do this alone, you can have the help of friends, family or women's organizations that can help you break tFri, 09 Apr 2010 09:08:10 -0500Assalamu `alaykum brother,Did you read her message??? The man is VIOLENT!!! He has CHOKED her!!! Why on earth would you tell a woman to go marry an abusive man???http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409439693#409439693Assalamu `alaykum brother,Did you read her message??? The man is VIOLENT!!! He has CHOKED her!!! Why on earth would you tell a woman to go marry an abusive man???Fri, 09 Apr 2010 09:04:13 -0500Thank you for your advice.. You are correct what he does to me he do to our children if that was to ever happen. I have broken up with him numerous of times but some how some way he have remain in my life. I know in my heart that I must leave him ahttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409389537#409389537Thank you for your advice.. You are correct what he does to me he do to our children if that was to ever happen. I have broken up with him numerous of times but some how some way he have remain in my life. I know in my heart that I must leave him aThu, 08 Apr 2010 20:12:01 -0500Peace.There is no need to be ashamed of being in the relationship. But you need to get out. Now.You seem concerned that he doesn't want to have kids with you. You should not be concerned about that. YOU ARE THE ONE who does not want to have kids withttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409360697#409360697Peace.There is no need to be ashamed of being in the relationship. But you need to get out. Now.You seem concerned that he doesn't want to have kids with you. You should not be concerned about that. YOU ARE THE ONE who does not want to have kids witThu, 08 Apr 2010 16:17:24 -0500This is my story. I am forty-one year old dating a thirty-year old Pakistani man. He wanted to get married a couple of months ago, but I refuse. I know he needed a green-card and why should I marry any men for those reasons. He still have remain inhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/51633/23112845/Dating_a_Muslim_man?post_id=409333141#409333141This is my story. I am forty-one year old dating a thirty-year old Pakistani man. He wanted to get married a couple of months ago, but I refuse. I know he needed a green-card and why should I marry any men for those reasons. He still have remain inThu, 08 Apr 2010 11:59:48 -0500