New Posts For Thread: Why wait?http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_waitWhen it comes to maturity and realizing that you want more out of life than a body to lie next to, you realize that some adjustments in your behavior and the way you think needs to change. You also realize that you can’t do the same things andhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=525719825#525719825When it comes to maturity and realizing that you want more out of life than a body to lie next to, you realize that some adjustments in your behavior and the way you think needs to change. You also realize that you can’t do the same things andFri, 02 Nov 2012 17:19:28 -0500I realize it's been a while since anyone has responded to your post. I certainly hope you haven't been waiting to have sex all this time. I want to say first of all ... you don't need a therapist. What you need to do is look into heart and do whathttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=389508985#389508985I realize it's been a while since anyone has responded to your post. I certainly hope you haven't been waiting to have sex all this time. I want to say first of all ... you don't need a therapist. What you need to do is look into heart and do whatSat, 06 Feb 2010 13:08:27 -0600How one expreses ones sexuality takes responsibility, prep, mental, physical, emotional and ethical choices must be considered and discussed with possible partners. Safer sex talks and stuff like how to use a condom and other safer sex techniqueshttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=379783857#379783857How one expreses ones sexuality takes responsibility, prep, mental, physical, emotional and ethical choices must be considered and discussed with possible partners. Safer sex talks and stuff like how to use a condom and other safer sex techniquesThu, 03 Dec 2009 06:23:41 -0600Thank you!Returning to topic, I do agree sex should not wait.If people feel the same, then do it."No-sex-until-marriage" is nonsensical for two reasons.1.} People, regardless of religion, are having sex before marriage, or outside marriage.2.} Peoplehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=378323929#378323929Thank you!Returning to topic, I do agree sex should not wait.If people feel the same, then do it."No-sex-until-marriage" is nonsensical for two reasons.1.} People, regardless of religion, are having sex before marriage, or outside marriage.2.} PeopleTue, 17 Nov 2009 19:05:50 -0600Tell you a secret: you don't have to wear cologne to attract girls. All that matters is that you're reasonably clean and don't stink. If you wash on a regular basis and wear deodorant, that right there is enough.Some of us are late bloomers. I don'thttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=378234029#378234029Tell you a secret: you don't have to wear cologne to attract girls. All that matters is that you're reasonably clean and don't stink. If you wash on a regular basis and wear deodorant, that right there is enough.Some of us are late bloomers. I don'tMon, 16 Nov 2009 20:40:41 -0600Bardi, WTF? I leave the board for 8 mos and wha' happin'? Is that you? Confident, not wanting for female companionship, feeling good. Miracles DO happen!http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=377927641#377927641Bardi, WTF? I leave the board for 8 mos and wha' happin'? Is that you? Confident, not wanting for female companionship, feeling good. Miracles DO happen!Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:08:38 -0600Don't worry about it, you still got what three years left in college? I went from whining on these boards on a daily basis about my dry spell to being a playa in less time than that.And I stopped going to school 6 years ago. Trust me, finding a womhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=377873461#377873461Don't worry about it, you still got what three years left in college? I went from whining on these boards on a daily basis about my dry spell to being a playa in less time than that.And I stopped going to school 6 years ago. Trust me, finding a womFri, 13 Nov 2009 00:46:06 -0600Really, the point was more the first line than the specifics. No matter what all your peers say, you are the only one not getting any."Cognitive based disorder" sounds kind of ominous, hope it isn't.http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=377870821#377870821Really, the point was more the first line than the specifics. No matter what all your peers say, you are the only one not getting any."Cognitive based disorder" sounds kind of ominous, hope it isn't.Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:54:36 -0600As a matter of fact, I'm 19.My hair is a bit of a rat's nest, it grows very fast.I use deodorant/cologne all the time and wear reasonably decent clothes.And do political/social stuff occasionally.Also, I have a cognitive-based disorder, which makes dhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=377733309#377733309As a matter of fact, I'm 19.My hair is a bit of a rat's nest, it grows very fast.I use deodorant/cologne all the time and wear reasonably decent clothes.And do political/social stuff occasionally.Also, I have a cognitive-based disorder, which makes dWed, 11 Nov 2009 16:50:56 -0600I understand your feelings, and had them myself from age 14 till 25, when I finally had those things, and a few others I hadn't know were necessary.they included: Being relaxed enough with myself to be who I was Being acceptinghttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43931/13339379/Why_wait?post_id=363459477#363459477I understand your feelings, and had them myself from age 14 till 25, when I finally had those things, and a few others I hadn't know were necessary.they included: Being relaxed enough with myself to be who I was Being acceptingFri, 30 Oct 2009 12:45:05 -0500