New Posts For Thread: Need help in 9 year relationshiphttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationshipHello everyone. I met my significant other 9 years ago. We hit it off instantly. He was from the north, and I was born and raised in the south. After visiting his family for a few months, he went back home, but didn't want to leave me. The next monthI just finished reading your letter, and wanted to inquire how you were doing?. Keep a diary of where you want to see your life journey, and progression. Write down what you would like to happen, that would be pleasing to you. The things that are makhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520570851#520570851I just finished reading your letter, and wanted to inquire how you were doing?. Keep a diary of where you want to see your life journey, and progression. Write down what you would like to happen, that would be pleasing to you. The things that are makThu, 07 Jun 2012 17:15:37 -0500Thetanager,I don't even know what to say, you said it perfectly.God bless marriages. They are hard!!!http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520540763#520540763Thetanager,I don't even know what to say, you said it perfectly.God bless marriages. They are hard!!!Thu, 07 Jun 2012 01:00:34 -0500Sadsoul, I want you to know I'm praying for you and here are some thoughts. First off, I agree with the others in seeking professional help. And if you are a Christian, I would also seek the help of your pastor and/or Christian professional counselhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520372711#520372711Sadsoul, I want you to know I'm praying for you and here are some thoughts. First off, I agree with the others in seeking professional help. And if you are a Christian, I would also seek the help of your pastor and/or Christian professional counselSat, 02 Jun 2012 14:11:16 -0500(((Sad)))I think God is trying to tell you something and you keep putting your fingers in your ears and say "I can't hear you!" If your boyfriend is hitting and spitting on you, what might he be doing to your chldren? What are you teaching by yourhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520257201#520257201(((Sad)))I think God is trying to tell you something and you keep putting your fingers in your ears and say "I can't hear you!" If your boyfriend is hitting and spitting on you, what might he be doing to your chldren? What are you teaching by yourWed, 30 May 2012 15:17:34 -0500Welcome to the boards here, Sad Soul. I get the impression that you already know this, but perhaps do not understand what it means: I think it is very likely that you are suffering from depression. Depression is not a character flaw or personal weaknhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520149677#520149677Welcome to the boards here, Sad Soul. I get the impression that you already know this, but perhaps do not understand what it means: I think it is very likely that you are suffering from depression. Depression is not a character flaw or personal weaknSun, 27 May 2012 19:09:32 -0500Hello everyone. I met my significant other 9 years ago. We hit it off instantly. He was from the north, and I was born and raised in the south. After visiting his family for a few months, he went back home, but didn't want to leave me. The next monthhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/29142685/Need_help_in_9_year_relationship?post_id=520143001#520143001Hello everyone. I met my significant other 9 years ago. We hit it off instantly. He was from the north, and I was born and raised in the south. After visiting his family for a few months, he went back home, but didn't want to leave me. The next monthSun, 27 May 2012 15:08:13 -0500