New Posts For Thread: Can't stop thinking about his last ex-girlfriendhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28977573/Cant_stop_thinking_about_his_last_ex-girlfriendHello,My name is Rachel and I have been slowly destroying my relationship with my boyfriend for about the past 5 months. I need help. I love him more than anyone I have ever loved in my entire life and I don't want to lose him. I have been to a counsRachel, any Freudian psychologist would tell you that the reason you're so hung-up about your boyfriend's previous relationship is that you really don't want your relationship with Chris to succeed. It also indicates that you don't trust Chris, and ahttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28977573/Cant_stop_thinking_about_his_last_ex-girlfriend?post_id=517619531#517619531Rachel, any Freudian psychologist would tell you that the reason you're so hung-up about your boyfriend's previous relationship is that you really don't want your relationship with Chris to succeed. It also indicates that you don't trust Chris, and aFri, 16 Mar 2012 17:13:59 -0500Rachel-Telling yourself "you can't help it" when you begin obsessing over the other woman, imagining this or that scenario is just lying to yourself.Stop it.When you think about it, the only thing you can truly say is under your complete control is whttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28977573/Cant_stop_thinking_about_his_last_ex-girlfriend?post_id=517286941#517286941Rachel-Telling yourself "you can't help it" when you begin obsessing over the other woman, imagining this or that scenario is just lying to yourself.Stop it.When you think about it, the only thing you can truly say is under your complete control is wWed, 07 Mar 2012 22:36:33 -0600What makes you think that an anonymous post on the internet is likely to make a change where personal counseling did not?I'm sure the counselor told you this, but you have to make a choice. Either you make yourself fun for Chris to be around and stophttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28977573/Cant_stop_thinking_about_his_last_ex-girlfriend?post_id=517284473#517284473What makes you think that an anonymous post on the internet is likely to make a change where personal counseling did not?I'm sure the counselor told you this, but you have to make a choice. Either you make yourself fun for Chris to be around and stopWed, 07 Mar 2012 20:38:29 -0600Hello,My name is Rachel and I have been slowly destroying my relationship with my boyfriend for about the past 5 months. I need help. I love him more than anyone I have ever loved in my entire life and I don't want to lose him. I have been to a counshttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28977573/Cant_stop_thinking_about_his_last_ex-girlfriend?post_id=517279485#517279485Hello,My name is Rachel and I have been slowly destroying my relationship with my boyfriend for about the past 5 months. I need help. I love him more than anyone I have ever loved in my entire life and I don't want to lose him. I have been to a counsWed, 07 Mar 2012 17:48:23 -0600