New Posts For Thread: Is it time to really let go?http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_goMy husband and I have been separated since June, but we see each other almost everyday and talk everyday because we have a three year old. The way we have worked it out is he keeps her while I work my tweleve hour shift at night and sleep during theTake this decision yourself. If you really fadeup all these then its good to move soon and take a new start up towards your life.________________Love Problem Solutionhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=526453007#526453007Take this decision yourself. If you really fadeup all these then its good to move soon and take a new start up towards your life.________________Love Problem SolutionThu, 29 Nov 2012 06:26:48 -0600Just a update.. we did move back in and for the most part it was a good friendship slash roommate situation. I say that because we never really acted like a married couple ( the romantic, emotional, or anything affectionate). Just like before some ishttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=515985587#515985587Just a update.. we did move back in and for the most part it was a good friendship slash roommate situation. I say that because we never really acted like a married couple ( the romantic, emotional, or anything affectionate). Just like before some isSun, 05 Feb 2012 13:33:10 -0600SP-Just the other day, i observed to an acquaintance that "Gettin' old ain't fer sissies," and he replied, "Neither is marriage."Don't know if that'll help convince your husband that an actual marriage, a REAL one, takes work, sometimes blood, sweathttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=510014055#510014055SP-Just the other day, i observed to an acquaintance that "Gettin' old ain't fer sissies," and he replied, "Neither is marriage."Don't know if that'll help convince your husband that an actual marriage, a REAL one, takes work, sometimes blood, sweatFri, 14 Oct 2011 23:58:07 -0500Maybe he expected one session to fix things once and for all.It's understandable that he be reluctant to go to marriage counseling, especially if he was unimpressed with the first visit. Not all marriage counselors are that great, so he may have a pohttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=509898735#509898735Maybe he expected one session to fix things once and for all.It's understandable that he be reluctant to go to marriage counseling, especially if he was unimpressed with the first visit. Not all marriage counselors are that great, so he may have a poWed, 12 Oct 2011 10:27:45 -0500I have thought about it and looked into it but he will not do it. I even ask for marriage counseling and his reply is we tried that once. And once is right he went one time and would not go back.http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=509865871#509865871I have thought about it and looked into it but he will not do it. I even ask for marriage counseling and his reply is we tried that once. And once is right he went one time and would not go back.Tue, 11 Oct 2011 13:39:55 -0500Welcome back, southernpeach, and sorry for the ongoing problems in your marriage. You are finding it difficult to choose a path - you are clear that the on-again off-again cycle is not working for you any more, and there is still a part of you that ihttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=509832075#509832075Welcome back, southernpeach, and sorry for the ongoing problems in your marriage. You are finding it difficult to choose a path - you are clear that the on-again off-again cycle is not working for you any more, and there is still a part of you that iMon, 10 Oct 2011 16:36:29 -0500My husband and I have been separated since June, but we see each other almost everyday and talk everyday because we have a three year old. The way we have worked it out is he keeps her while I work my tweleve hour shift at night and sleep during thehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28499067/Is_it_time_to_really_let_go?post_id=509792709#509792709My husband and I have been separated since June, but we see each other almost everyday and talk everyday because we have a three year old. The way we have worked it out is he keeps her while I work my tweleve hour shift at night and sleep during theSun, 09 Oct 2011 16:02:26 -0500