New Posts For Thread: So called "Christian" brother and sister in law's judgement over my divorcehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28035881/So_called_Christian_brother_and_sister_in_laws_judgement_over_my_divorceI never thought in my life I would be starting a thread in regards to my brother and sister in law overtly interfering in my divorce.Let me see if I can give you the Cliff notes version of my situation: My stbe and me grew apart because he wanted a cForgiving someone is something you do for yourself. You can forgive someone who has done you wrong, but that is not the same as forgetting and allowing their behavior to continue. Forgiving is letting go of the hurt and anger and what it can dohttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28035881/So_called_Christian_brother_and_sister_in_laws_judgement_over_my_divorce?post_id=505907407#505907407Forgiving someone is something you do for yourself. You can forgive someone who has done you wrong, but that is not the same as forgetting and allowing their behavior to continue. Forgiving is letting go of the hurt and anger and what it can doSun, 28 Aug 2011 10:11:53 -0500Hi H,I'm so sorry that you're going through so much unnecessary and hurtful drama. Divorce is painful enough! I've been through two and neither came about with any friendship able to survive between my exes and myself. Divorce is a devastating exphttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28035881/So_called_Christian_brother_and_sister_in_laws_judgement_over_my_divorce?post_id=503067025#503067025Hi H,I'm so sorry that you're going through so much unnecessary and hurtful drama. Divorce is painful enough! I've been through two and neither came about with any friendship able to survive between my exes and myself. Divorce is a devastating expWed, 20 Jul 2011 22:47:58 -0500Wow, H...just wow!FWIW, i think you've done the right thing by distancing yourself from them, but "disowning"? Is that a legal thing, or just putting them on notice that they're idiots meddling in things that are none of their business?And i don't shttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28035881/So_called_Christian_brother_and_sister_in_laws_judgement_over_my_divorce?post_id=502945501#502945501Wow, H...just wow!FWIW, i think you've done the right thing by distancing yourself from them, but "disowning"? Is that a legal thing, or just putting them on notice that they're idiots meddling in things that are none of their business?And i don't sTue, 19 Jul 2011 19:12:39 -0500I never thought in my life I would be starting a thread in regards to my brother and sister in law overtly interfering in my divorce.Let me see if I can give you the Cliff notes version of my situation: My stbe and me grew apart because he wanted a chttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/28035881/So_called_Christian_brother_and_sister_in_laws_judgement_over_my_divorce?post_id=502908989#502908989I never thought in my life I would be starting a thread in regards to my brother and sister in law overtly interfering in my divorce.Let me see if I can give you the Cliff notes version of my situation: My stbe and me grew apart because he wanted a cTue, 19 Jul 2011 12:41:08 -0500