New Posts For Thread: Women making the First Movehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_MoveFirst off, I'd like to let you know that it's considered rather rude to resurrect a two year old thread. Far better to make a new one and include a link back to the old one. So, you believe that the rights of others to pursue personal relationships ahttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=476786053#476786053First off, I'd like to let you know that it's considered rather rude to resurrect a two year old thread. Far better to make a new one and include a link back to the old one. So, you believe that the rights of others to pursue personal relationships aSat, 04 Dec 2010 17:12:58 -0600"if you pursue a guy, most likely in the end, youre the one to carry the weight in the relationship . . ."And if will usually work the same way if the man "pursues" the woman. She will do most of the housework and childcare, she will take the birthhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=476669809#476669809"if you pursue a guy, most likely in the end, youre the one to carry the weight in the relationship . . ."And if will usually work the same way if the man "pursues" the woman. She will do most of the housework and childcare, she will take the birthFri, 03 Dec 2010 19:30:52 -0600Women have a right to directly initiate a relationship with a man. Period. Dating is male-dominated is because of anti-feminist backlash. The women's movement had to work very hard and face incredible opposition to make progress, so it's hardly shohttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=476669097#476669097Women have a right to directly initiate a relationship with a man. Period. Dating is male-dominated is because of anti-feminist backlash. The women's movement had to work very hard and face incredible opposition to make progress, so it's hardly shoFri, 03 Dec 2010 19:22:29 -0600Dfireheart: I can't speak for every woman, but it's been my experience that when a man's interested he lets you know, and he doesn't mind making the 1st move. So, if a man doesn't make the 1st move, I assume he's not that interested. I don't make thehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=378056265#378056265Dfireheart: I can't speak for every woman, but it's been my experience that when a man's interested he lets you know, and he doesn't mind making the 1st move. So, if a man doesn't make the 1st move, I assume he's not that interested. I don't make theSat, 14 Nov 2009 23:34:37 -0600i dont know what to say but i guess it depends, if you pursue a guy, most likely in the end, youre the one to carry the weight in the relationship, i mean, because you cant really tell if hes into you in the first place, guys have different mind set,http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=361387197#361387197i dont know what to say but i guess it depends, if you pursue a guy, most likely in the end, youre the one to carry the weight in the relationship, i mean, because you cant really tell if hes into you in the first place, guys have different mind set,Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:54:47 -0500This one got a little scientific for me.This situation recently came up for me too. I'm a female. A man asked if I'd like to have coffee and I said sure. Then he "told me" to call him to arrange this. I have to admit it was a total turn-off. I have nhttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=361311605#361311605This one got a little scientific for me.This situation recently came up for me too. I'm a female. A man asked if I'd like to have coffee and I said sure. Then he "told me" to call him to arrange this. I have to admit it was a total turn-off. I have nFri, 16 Oct 2009 16:39:06 -0500Like a scientist a woman should see the world as it really is, not as they would wish it. And a Man must see their own heart as it really is, and confess it to the woman.If a woman would initiate a relation ship by asking the man, then they should chttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=296736987#296736987Like a scientist a woman should see the world as it really is, not as they would wish it. And a Man must see their own heart as it really is, and confess it to the woman.If a woman would initiate a relation ship by asking the man, then they should cSat, 06 Jun 2009 21:05:42 -0500I guess it just depends on the lady in question. Some women like to be flattered and wooed. I knew my baby for about a year before dating and I made the first move. So I had sort of gotten to know him before confessing. I told him : "Hey, I have somehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=293326943#293326943I guess it just depends on the lady in question. Some women like to be flattered and wooed. I knew my baby for about a year before dating and I made the first move. So I had sort of gotten to know him before confessing. I told him : "Hey, I have someWed, 20 May 2009 16:24:46 -0500I totally agree with you.being on the other side of the fence... girls always want to treat me like dirt and push me away and I've become so hurt by the constant rejection I'm too scared to approach anyone any morehttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=282013396#282013396I totally agree with you.being on the other side of the fence... girls always want to treat me like dirt and push me away and I've become so hurt by the constant rejection I'm too scared to approach anyone any moreTue, 31 Mar 2009 22:09:22 -0500I totally agree with you.http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43921/13242459/Women_making_the_First_Move?post_id=281900303#281900303I totally agree with you.Tue, 31 Mar 2009 14:39:03 -0500