http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dieshttp://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=468609033#468609033I'm very sorry for your loss and my sincere sympathy and prayers are with you. I haven't experienced the same loss, so i can only offer my sympathy. I don't think there is anything harder to bear than the loss of a child. Nature/God makes the bondSat, 02 Oct 2010 22:45:50 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=465002513#465002513I'm sorry that you've lost your daughter. I think it's totally unrealistic for anyone to be the same or the family to be the same after such an unthinkable event.I don't know if what I'm about to say will help you or make you think I'm a flake, but oMon, 06 Sep 2010 01:31:39 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=460119465#460119465I lost my 18 year old daughter June 21st 2009. The past year has been torture. I have five other children and I live in constant fear that I will awaken and find two officers at my door telling me that I have lost another one. The crying has lessenedMon, 02 Aug 2010 21:25:19 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=456517397#456517397Hello - I am new to this group.......however, I have lost a child. She was 26 weeks invitro, and the Dr.'s did everything they could back then.....took her c-section, and put her on ventilators, monitered her poked and prodded her until the Dr. camFri, 09 Jul 2010 16:23:01 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=453721157#453721157Hi, I just found this site and read your post "what is normal".I feel exactly what you are feeling. My 14 yr. old daughter died on July 8, 2008. She was diagnosed with a rare cancer on May 27 just weeks before. She started her first chemo on July 2,Sat, 26 Jun 2010 10:15:29 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=415960201#415960201I think your description of "normal" is well described. My feelings after losing my son and only child July 2009 mirror your "normal". The unending pain and sorrow are a very heavy load for us to carry. The loss of a child wrecks your entire worldSat, 01 May 2010 20:29:29 -0500http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=390192737#390192737Nothing is normal again after a child dies. I have come to realize that the "new normal" takes place each day with no script. My best boy died of a brain tumor at age 12 in 1996. He was magical and I have never felt love like that before in my life..Fri, 12 Feb 2010 23:30:46 -0600http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=382399633#382399633this brought on so many tears for me a women who lost a baby, had a child with cancer and saw many children pass because of cancer this hit home. I thought I forgot these things i am reminded of how i some of these things everyday and your right tWed, 30 Dec 2009 19:01:06 -0600http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=380012389#380012389You Can't Feel A Thing After Your Chaild Dies When Your Chaild Dies You Die A Long With Your Child And Theres No Coming Back You Stay That Way For A Lot Of Years I Have Lost A Lot Of Family Died And I Wish They Were Here Right Now I Miss Them All TodSat, 05 Dec 2009 15:15:46 -0600http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43881/13411199/What_is_normal_after_your_child_dies?post_id=378584257#378584257My son passed away on 9.9.09For those of us who used to be interested in numerology, I was struck by the day you child passed. 999 is the number of God.. Its as if, God and your baby had become One.Never having lost a child..I cant imagine the pain.Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:36:54 -0600