A year ago my Uncle Bobby passed away, in May Micky passed and yesterday morning Patsy went home. Its just a sad day, so many gone in a short time.   Beautiful flowers all around, all the way down the funeral home wall, cards and notes saying she will be missed. Why send flowers now? Would it have been better to spend the money taking her out to eat? Or to her favorite movie? Sending such beautiful flowers to her now makes no sence to me.