Many NDERs made a choice to come back, I was told I had to come back....I was told I had to come back for the children, what ever that meant. Over the years my understanding of "the children" has changed but what it is I am meant to be doing has remained a mystery. I felt guilty for years about not wanting to come back here, until someone on this site said, who would not want to be with Jesus, or "In The Light".