Hi Wayne, have you ever lived and worked in East Africa or are you connected to an African community where you are living now? I lived and taught in Tanzania and even married my husband there, at the foot of Mt. Kilimanjaro. There is a translation to an old Kiswahili proverb that goes, 'If you wish for honey, follow a bee'. Don't worry, you'll find a lovely 'bee' one of these days and the feelings will be mutual. Best wishes.

Thank you for accepting my request. Peace.

Thanks bunches for your request, Wayne :) Have a wonderful day!