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Hi, I hope you had a good day today Sunday. I read your profile and I tell you don't feel lonely because God is within you. I believe you are very lucky, you have two beautiful children, a lot of women cannot have children, and another thing you live in the country. I grew up in the country and I believe that this fact alone helped me partly in becoming the person I am today. I grew up admiring the flower's scent, laying on the grass smelling the earth, running up the creek, playing with apples using them as balls since we didn't have any balls to play with. We had a lot of land, but no money and we were very happy. We always felt free. In other words we took time to admire the beautiful earth that God created and used whatever we had at hand the best way possible. Have you considered doing some painting? or drawing what you see everyday? Think about it. Stay possitive and look forward to the possibilities in front of you. Don't look back for that is gone. Live the moment and enjoy it. Pray to Jesus to show you His Love, I can tell you. You will never feel alone again. BELIEVE, ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE. Love always. Amparo
Hi If you don't mind me asking what is your name? Mine is Carol are you having a good fourth? I am looking foward to taking my kids to the fireworks tonight. :) Hope you are having a good day.
Greetings: I am new to Belief Net and just getting acquainted. I noticed your profile on the home page, and felt like saying, "Hi." I don't have a specific word of encouragement. You sound like a single mom coping with a challenging family. My daughter may be about your age, and is also a single mom with a high functioning autistic child (aspberger syndrome). We have supported her as parents and are familiar with her struggles which sound similar to yours. I would be happy to share more.
I have read your lovely profile. I can really relate to you.
I am presently doing my doctoral studies in the field of autism. I also have a son who is afflicted with the disorder. I am a single parent of two children both of whom have been blessings to me.
As long as you have faith in God, you are not alone. He will walk with you and accompany you and your loved ones on your journey through life.
If you need any advice, please do not hesitate to ask. I will be happy to be of assistance to you in any way I can.
Hug your little angels.
may be you can go to China for help.
I read your profile and just wanted to say "hello" and welcome and to send some light and love your way...a younger brother of mine has 2 autistic sons (the eldest and the youngest) and one "normal" one in the middle...I remember when they were young and how difficult and frustrating it was at times for my brother and his wife...how overwhelmed they felt...and even for the extended family...it was definitely a learning experience...and after a time we all came to see just how wonderful and special those two boys were...they brought a whole new perspective into our lives...now they are grown 27 and 21 years old and are doing great...they are high functioning and live quite independently and individually in roommates situations and they both have jobs ...basically we always...all of us...tried to treat them as normally as possible and this allowed them to learn how to fit very well into different social situations...they can carry on pretty good conversations...they very much like to appear "savvy" and have pretty well developed sense of humors...but believe me...when they were young...they were a major handful...so I have a pretty good understanding how you might feel right now...but it will get better...honestly...and I am sure you are looking for sources of help for them and yourself in many avenues at this point...right?...anyway...I just wanted to let you know I care...and have at least some understanding of what you are going through...although...I have not fully walked in your shoes...I hold you in the light of God in my prayers...love and blessings to you:)
I'm sorry you have had so much hardship in your life. Please try to remember there are no mistakes in our life only learning experiences. Look in your mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful inside and out. This is the way that God sees you. You are His child and as you love your children so He loves you - forever.I pray for you and your children. I too have been alone with just children and pets. So I understand. Bless you,Pat
Hi our group is all about Spirituality and your own personal truth, I am a Spiritual Pastor and with the Group someday's I am a teacher and others the studen. We never judge and love to help others help themselve's, so join us for some great talks and relly good support for a person seeking your own personal truth with Spirituality. Love Pastor Sandie
Everyone deserves it.When your sons are away is there something you could plan to do to fill this absence? What are your dreams big or small?Take a small step or large toward them.
to: Dragonflies....your children are of importance, but also so is your social health. It is important that you make separate time with healthy adults as well. This is important to model for your children, too. I have 4 children who are now grown. It is of great value to have another identity besides being a mother. I don't want to take away from the value of your being a mother, but the loneliness you feel is important information to your well-being. counselor.