My name is Dianne ... I'm a 43 year old woman... going through a very challenging time in life. I lost my fiance/boyfriend suddenly in January of 08 and have literally had to start all over again. When Kevin died I also lost my home, my job (I worked for and with Kevin) and my best friend. I've joined this community because I am six months into my grief and I realize that people really do not, cannot understand what I am going through unless they have experienced a loss like this. People want me to be *better*.. and I realize it doesn't get *better* it just changes. I just want to be able to be in touch with people who know what I am going through.... and if I can help others with their loss that would be great.