We lost our only daughter two years ago. I wonder how long ago was your loss? How old was he? The circumstances? Do you have a need to talk or tell all of these? When ours happened I had a great need to relate to someone who had been there. I hated the platitudes. From well meaning people who hadn't been there. It put us in a bubble of sorts. Allot of people not knowing what to say just stayed away. That was hard too.